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Does being a bit hairy turn off girls?

Hello, well im still a virgin(male), nearly 19. Just started a relationship with a girl but i just suddenly thought before when someone commented on my arms.

My arms and legs are quite hairy, my back and front only have a little bit of hair, but i was wondering will this be a total turn off? And if so, what can i do to get rid of some hair(without waxing).

Please be kind, its not my fauly im a bit hairy :smile:

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Reply 1

generalebriety

Nah, different girls prefer different things, but in the end (cheesy as this is, it doesn't stop it being true) if she likes you, it'll be in spite of any physical 'flaws' you have. But being hairy certainly isn't one. :p:

Reply 2

chan89

It's a matter of preference tbh of the 'do you prefer blue/brown/green eyes?' kind, some girls like it, some girls don't.

But nooo don't get rid of it! Some of us love hairy guys :redface:

Reply 3

bone-machine

its not really a big deal..how hairy are we talking??...i would say the back is a turn off, but my ex always moaned that he had a hairy back and i couldnt see anything....except a few whisps on his shoulders....which didnt bother me at all.

why not just wax if your worried?..ask your mum or sister to do it...

Reply 4

Amberoo

I quite like it shows a true man.. just whatever you do don't remove it your look gay :smile:

and hurry up and loose your virginity your 19!

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

I think it would be wierd if a bloke didn't have hair on his arms. my bf is quite hairy and it is the one thing that i really would change if i could. he malts. and has a hairy back...and front and it's just not pretty. maybe i'm really picking but hairy back is not something that pleases me, nor does finding his hair everywhere!!!!
Don't change or go through the pain of waxing, unless you really need to get it done. and please leave it on your arms!!!

Reply 6

high priestess fnord

meh tbh not bothered in the slightest. as long as you cant plait it i would rather have a guy with a bit of chest hair and snail trails are cute.

Reply 7

Tufts

perhaps consider a back, sack and crack job?

Reply 8

high priestess fnord

Tufts

perhaps consider a back, sack and crack job?

does anyone else cringe at the thought of this?

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

never used to but had a hollywood a few weeks ago...and i chose it...skin on the sac isn't the tighest...all i can say is oooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!

Reply 10

generalebriety

Amberoo

I quite like it shows a true man.. just whatever you do don't remove it your look gay :smile:

and hurry up and loose your virginity your 19!

Heh. There's always one idiot.

Reply 11

Tufts

high priestess fnord

does anyone else cringe at the thought of this?

some guys will do anything for the ladies :biggrin:

Amberoo

I quite like it shows a true man.. just whatever you do don't remove it your look gay :smile:

and hurry up and loose your virginity your 19!

It's hardly a prerequisite to have lost your virginity by 19. Ok, so it may be the norm for many in the society, but just because you haven't doesn't mean that you're abnormal. I'm nearly 19, and I've never even had a girlfriend - is that some kind of major problem as well? Too many people place an emphasis on sex today, in my opinion....

Anyway, back on topic, I'd agree that it's a matter of preference.

Reply 14

Tufts

You don't look like this, do you mate?

*shudders*

i like hairy men

my best friend is hairy and he asks me to wax his back.

He doesnt let me NEAR the chest hair though. says its "manly".

but apart from waxing which you can do then forget about for a while, other methods of hair removal, if you choose to do this, are much more huigh-maintainance

good luck!
xXx

Reply 17