Been learning chinese since september, not self teaching no. Supposedly once we've been doing it until about may we will be able to engage in most conversations in a social context. However, I want to boost it up so that I can master social and also get some business context stuff so that it's actually useful as a career tool, possibly lol. Loads of people at top firms seem to be speaking chinese now. Like when you read those "day in the life" things, for some reason step 1) I listen to some chinese vocab on the train into work, I have been learning for a while now and really enjoy it.
Yes, however, I do think they kind of exaggerate and deliberately pick the partner with the most stuff ie language, sports after work etc... or just make one up!