Would this put a guy off forever if he liked her?

Say a girl doesn't like sex and keeps avoiding it and the guy broke up with her because of it. If he liked her quite a bit would he still miss her (like the hugs etc) and maybe give her another chance somewhere in the future. Or would the fact that she didn't have a sex drive at that time put him off her forever?

Say a girl doesn't like sex and keeps avoiding it and the guy broke up with her because of it. If he liked her quite a bit would he still miss her (like the hugs etc) and maybe give her another chance somewhere in the future. Or would the fact that she didn't have a sex drive at that time put him off her forever?

Highly depends on the individual, A LOT of relationships are based highly from the sex. They may not have nothing in common but the physical attraction.
Where as other relationships are very emotional based, basically the soul mate complex. You click on every level, the physical side may become unnecessary for it to work.

By the sounds of it, the relationship you're enquiring about, really just had the guy interested in sex. He wanted sex and felt you're wasting his time. Maybe once it's out of his system, he'll reconsider or move on.

It wouldn't even put me off and make me feel the need to leave in the first place, I'd be patient and enjoy other things together in the meantime.

It wouldn't put me off her forever. It would cause a great deal of frustration, it would cause many problems, I'd cheat on her and continually seek sex from other women. But I could still miss her and want to be with her. I was in this position.

That's what he has done but it's been 6 months, although he started to get frustrated with me after 2 months. I appreciate him trying and being patient and don't hold it against him.

Ah ok, was she just avoiding it a lot or did nothing happen due to an issue/being frigid.

Sorry you don't have to reply if it's personal.

If he wants to have sex and you don't want to have sex then you're obviously not compatible. Whether one of you will change is up to you, but I'd say it's quite unrealistic to expect him to not want sex. And whether you should change is another question; perhaps you should investigate the reasons you don't want to have sex and decide whether they can be solved, or if you want to solve them.

She avoids physical contact, anything intimate or sexual is always a struggle to initiate with her. I always felt like I was forcing myself on her and desperately trying to seek physical affection and intimacy from her. She didn't have a sex drive whereas I wanted it all the time literally, she told me I made her feel dirty by 'forcing' her to do sexual things. But this didn't change the way I felt about her, I have always loved her and always will love her, and I miss her. I was frustrated but there's nothing I could do, I just accepted it.

In your situation, it depends on how strongly he felt towards you. You'd have to have a very strong emotional bond with someone to overlook something like this. But then again, when you love someone so deeply, you'll ignore almost anything negative about the relationship and you'll blindly chase the person and want to be with them no matter what.

Ok thanks for sharing that as this is from the other side of the issue. Hm I understand that my bf wanted sex and I did let him touch me etc sexually even intercourse all though it hurt so he had to keep stopping. But loved cuddling with him that was the only thing I liked. He loved all the kissing and sexual stuff and I suppose when you have a low sex drive it feels irritating/like you are being mauled/over stimulated. He had it just as bad though as he felt I was always rejecting him which must have been horrid and I suppose to him and a lot of men showing love is basically sex. You probably felt rejected all the time too. It's hard to come to a compromise with sex drives are so different.