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Brother masturbates every night

We sleep in the same room. I want to cry. Every night i hear it and he thinks i'm sleeping. I've caught him so many times but he doesn't know. I'm older than him btw. I honestly feel absolutely disgusted. What's more-he doesn't own a phone so he doesn't have access to porn or anything. So what the **** is he actually masturbating to? I feel sick i swear. How can he do that? This world really is ending. My parents make sure to control his internet activity and what he watches on tv. I mean, the **** is he actually masturbating to? I have no experience with brothers so is this a normal occurence for young boys aged 11 to do? Especially a boy who comes from a good background, has good friends and has no access to disgusting stuff.

Right this minute, he's at it. And i'm blasting music from my headphones to block the noise (the creaking of his bed) while he's moving about

I'm no ****ing troll so i don't want to hear any comments like that. I just want advice on how to deal with this ****ing ****. There's no other room in the house so i'm stuck in the same bedroom as he is. I feel nauseous every night-i dread going to bed because it will happen. I have no way of discussing with parents because they're the religious type who you can't pass a word by. And addressing my brother would be mortifying. He acts so innocent in normal day to day situations but really, this is the work of the devil.

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Reply 1
He is 11 by the way.
Reply 2
Original post by stirkee
you could masturbate back


masturbation wars


Please. You are making me even more sick. Stop. I want some serious advice.
Probably to the girls (or guys...?) he finds attractive ...

As for rectifying it, probably best to talk to him about it, or leave him a note idek. That's the only way to initiate real change imo. But nevertheless it's a disgusting habit every night...

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Reply 4
It's normal.


The best way to solve this is to make him realise that you're awake without doing anything directly.

Next time you hear him doing it, pretend you're almost being woken up by the noise. Or stay awake and let him know it by shuffling around in your bed.
Reply 5
Original post by redwhiteandbrit
Probably to the girls (or guys...?) he finds attractive ...

As for rectifying it, probably best to talk to him about it, or leave him a note idek. That's the only way to initiate real change imo. But nevertheless it's a disgusting habit every night...

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It's disturbing because his sister is in the same room as him. I'm actually tearing up now because what is life. I can't talk to him about it because the **** would i actually say? I want the ground to swallow me
Original post by Anonymous
Please. You are making me even more sick. Stop. I want some serious advice.


You ask is it normal for someone of his age. The answer is yes I am afraid. That is about the age many guys start but I agree not ideal doing it while you are in the room. You need to somehow make him find out that you are aware when he is doing it.
Original post by Anonymous
We sleep in the same room. I want to cry. Every night i hear it and he thinks i'm sleeping. I've caught him so many times but he doesn't know. I'm older than him btw. I honestly feel absolutely disgusted. What's more-he doesn't own a phone so he doesn't have access to porn or anything. So what the **** is he actually masturbating to? I feel sick i swear. How can he do that? This world really is ending. My parents make sure to control his internet activity and what he watches on tv. I mean, the **** is he actually masturbating to? I have no experience with brothers so is this a normal occurence for young boys aged 11 to do? Especially a boy who comes from a good background, has good friends and has no access to disgusting stuff.

Right this minute, he's at it. And i'm blasting music from my headphones to block the noise (the creaking of his bed) while he's moving about

I'm no ****ing troll so i don't want to hear any comments like that. I just want advice on how to deal with this ****ing ****. There's no other room in the house so i'm stuck in the same bedroom as he is. I feel nauseous every night-i dread going to bed because it will happen. I have no way of discussing with parents because they're the religious type who you can't pass a word by. And addressing my brother would be mortifying. He acts so innocent in normal day to day situations but really, this is the work of the devil.


It's normal and healthy, but it is inappropriate to do it while you are in the room - whether you are asleep or not.

Speak to him, he'll be embarrassed but what's probably more embarrassing is how he came to work out how to masturbate. If he has absolutely no access to that kind of stuff, obviously something happened. I learnt how to do it on a scout camp when I was 11 lmao.

It's not disgusting, it's not the work of the devil.
How this brings back memories. I use to be that guy. I have grown alot since haha.

All it takes is letting him know you are aware. He should feel embarrassed enough to stop doing it so carelessly.
When i was first finding out about thisi use to **** my parents pillow. I didnt cum but eventually i came one day and i stopped doing. Thinking back now i feel sorry for my parentS lol.
If you hear it just say 'oi, pipe down!' or something.

But seriously, maybe if you freak him out by just saying something or throwing something in his direction maybe he will stop, and if that doesn't work, talk to your parents? :erm:
He's just thinking about girls he's finds attractive . Most boys masturabte at that age
Original post by boo28
It's normal.


The best way to solve this is to make him realise that you're awake without doing anything directly.

Next time you hear him doing it, pretend you're almost being woken up by the noise. Or stay awake and let him know it by shuffling around in your bed.


The number of times i've tried that. I've even made snide remarks about him being a disgusting little ****. A minute ago i coughed and he looked at me from his bed with a guilty expression and i snapped at him to stop moving about all the damn time. Yet,*right now he's back at it. I'm peaking at him from under my duvet but i can see him moving slyly. I think i'm gonna vomit my dinner out soon.
At his age which is very young, he would be able to and is quite common to masturbate using his imagination, later as he gets older he'll need actual material, so don't be concerned about that. Now i believe confronting him about his habits is probably the best thing to do, he will be mortified to the point where he wont beat his meat even if he can hear you downstairs, you could tell him to do his business in the bathroom.

This is all common and healthy, please don't assume this is the work of the devil, your upbringing and values are all great but let nature run its course.
Yeh I wouldn't masturbate if I shared a room with someone !
If the light is off, turn on the light or something? Like it's pretty obvious then

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Original post by SeanFM
If you hear it just say 'oi, pipe down!' or something.

But seriously, maybe if you freak him out by just saying something or throwing something in his direction maybe he will stop, and if that doesn't work, talk to your parents? :erm:


:toofunny: Throw something in his direction, i laughed way too hard. He'll have a heart attack methinks, can't be responsible for sudden deaths

Parents are a no-no. They be religious so nah. They'd woop my ass if i tried to even bring up the topic. Worse, they would put the blame on me one way or the other. You don't know my parents.
Have separate bedrooms I think. Shouldnt you both be separated anyway
Original post by Maths and cheesecake
How this brings back memories. I use to be that guy. I have grown alot since haha.

All it takes is letting him know you are aware. He should feel embarrassed enough to stop doing it so carelessly.
When i was first finding out about thisi use to **** my parents pillow. I didnt cum but eventually i came one day and i stopped doing. Thinking back now i feel sorry for my parentS lol.


Parents pillow? Seriously?
People start doing it when they're 11?? I was about 17 the first time I did it and even that was by accident
Original post by chikane
Have separate bedrooms I think. Shouldnt you both be separated anyway


I'm way older than him. Yes, we should but there's not enough space in the house so i'm stuck with him.

And this ladies and gents, is why brothers and sisters should NEVER share a bedroom.

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