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No sex drive

For the last month I have seemed to have lost my sex drive. I'm no longer excited by the idea of sex and when I am with my boyfriend I feel like I need to force myself to feel turned on. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and he is very good in bed. I'm 21 so I honestly don't understand why I have no sex drive. Would anyone recommend anything I can do or take to get me back to normal as it's really putting a downer on our sex life and I'm sick of having to force myself to feel sexy.
What's changed? What contraception are you using?
It could be stress, contraception, diet, work load, hormone changes, self confidence changes, boredom, anything.
I thought it was the pill that meant I had no sex drive with my ex so I was super worried I'd have none with my current boyfriend but no, it was because I didn't find him attractive and the sex was rubbish. So really it could be anything, maybe work through the options of what it could be?
Are you in a comfortable situation when you're about too?

The main reasons are usually, stress, confidence, diet or sometimes even working out/running can help!

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