Would it be rude to invite another friend?

I’m staying at a friends new flat and invited another friend to come with me from back home (when I was drunk but they remembered rip) anyway- would it be cheeky to ask the friend I’m staying wit if my other friend could also stay with them? I’d hate to seem rude. I’ll just make up an excuse to the friend I invited and see them another time…thanks!

As with most things the answer would be, it depends. It depends on the type and strength of your friendship. Many friends wont mind as long as the other mate is not weird. If it is a boy-girl situation, it might get tricky.

We’re all girls. The friend I invited is one I’ve known for years- the friends I’m staying with I met at uni in sept thanks

My take on it is this.

Hard to say. Some people would be annoyed. Others wouldn't mind.

I think that you could say to your very old friend that you were drunk and because you like being with her you forgot that you were inviting her to someone else's place, without checking first that it was okay to invite her.

Would the two be likely to get along? If not, don't proceed.

You know the friend you are staying with and may know if they would mind you inviting someone? If they would mind then tell the person you invited that you were drunk and arrange to see them another time.

If you don't think that they would mind, or feel left out, and you think that they would be happy with it, then you you could ask them if they mind your old friend joining you for a short period of time but say you are absolutely fine with it if not. Don't tell them the invitation has already been given.

If the visit proceeds I would keep it short. And do everything possible to make it less of an imposition. Take her for a meal to say thanks etc.

We’re all girls. The friend I invited is one I’ve known for years- the friends I’m staying with I met at uni in sept thanks

Thank you.

My take on it is this.

Hard to say. Some people would be annoyed. Others wouldn't mind.

I think that you could say to your very old friend that you were drunk and because you like being with her you forgot that you were inviting her to someone else's place, without checking first that it was okay to invite her.

Would the two be likely to get along? If not, don't proceed.

You know the friend you are staying with and may know if they would mind you inviting someone? If they would mind then tell the person you invited that you were drunk and arrange to see them another time.

If you don't think that they would mind, or feel left out, and you think that they would be happy with it, then you you could ask them if they mind your old friend joining you for a short period of time but say you are absolutely fine with it if not. Don't tell them the invitation has already been given.

If the visit proceeds I would keep it short. And do everything possible to make it less of an imposition. Take her for a meal to say thanks etc.

Thanks guys! I think my uni friend might be annoyed bc she has social anxiety and likes to see ppl she knows, I’ve thought about it more- the friend I’m staying with I lived with until recently so we already know each other well- I just didn’t want to upset my old friend but I’ll make up an excuse and arrange to do something with them another time. I don’t like doing that but I realise that I’d hate to make my friend who’s letting me stay uncomfortable in her own space! I also get the impression that she’s excited to just see me and our other friends that we all know bc I haven’t seen them in a while thanks for your inputs!! I’ll buy my friend lunch/ drinks whilst in there!

Thanks guys! I think my uni friend might be annoyed bc she has social anxiety and likes to see ppl she knows, I’ve thought about it more- the friend I’m staying with I lived with until recently so we already know each other well- I just didn’t want to upset my old friend but I’ll make up an excuse and arrange to do something with them another time. I don’t like doing that but I realise that I’d hate to make my friend who’s letting me stay uncomfortable in her own space! I also get the impression that she’s excited to just see me and our other friends that we all know bc I haven’t seen them in a while thanks for your inputs!! I’ll buy my friend lunch/ drinks whilst in there!