should we break up

It's pretty obvious why she want's you in her direct site of vision, because if you was alone you'd definitely do stuff she isn't fw. In terms of this, I think its a process of trust or perhaps getting her used to him. Your mom has a right to have these rules and it's because she cares about you, unlike other moms who don't care where or what their daughter is doing. You should try discuss this with your mom/ and with him separately because it's not easy to just gain trust like that straight away.

Alternatively you could be entirely open with your mom and tell her why you actually want to be alone and hear her reaction, and then you could base you decision off that. The reason why I say this is because if she understands your goal then at least she can sympathise and then you both have that agreement, and at least if you are going to do stuff, you do them safely and she isn't going to be worried. If not then it's a discussion you need to have with your mans and to tell him that if he's going to be with you that this is how its going to be "for now", because you don't know, it might get better; tell him this and give him the option to see if he really loves you enough, or if he doesn't then he has the option to leave.

You are very mature to consider this situation but again will you be mentally okay if you break up, are there any other stuff you have that might be ruined if you do it now theoretically

Your mom has a right to have these rules and it's because she cares about you, unlike other moms who don't care where or what their daughter is doing.

This is very silly parental behaviour over a 17 year old.

Do you have any older siblings or other family members who are a bit more liberal/trusting? If so, maybe start discussing what your mum is up to with them and see if they’re willing to talk to her.

Well the relationship would be pretty much unworkable until you can stand up to your mum who is the far bigger problem. Suitors just aren't going to accept double dating your mum.



Many would say such rights end at her doorstep and most would consider this behaviour very excessive and the opposite of the equally unhealthy extreme of not caring - like I'm pretty sure it's possible to care for and guide your teenager while still letting them associate with their peers.

thank you that really helps, unfortunately the situations gotten worse. My mum has decided that after today for one hour I am not seeing him the rest of the summer. Idk how he's gonna react to that but I hate it and I am gonna miss him so much. Idk what to do, and to answer your question I won't be mentally ok, but I don't know what to do. Any more advice would be really appreciated.

if anyone could give me a hail mary in how I could keep our relationship intact I would really appreciate it, I have my ucat in a month and I think the breakup might really negatively effect my mental health and therefore ruin my chances of getting into med

Have you done it?

Im holding a med offer rn so if youd like some ucat advice id be happy to help

omg yes that would be amazing, any tips for quantitative reasoning and abstract reasoning would be soo welcome. Thanks!

100% for qr learn how to touch type with the numpad, its when you put your middle finger on the 5 (notice the little dot thing on it) and move your other fingers in relation to their position to the central 5 key, it might sound confusing here but search it on youtube and do some practise using touch typing exercises, it might seem like a huge learning curve rn, but trust me itll become second nature in a week, and save you so much time with the on screen calculator. Also, after your mocks (which you should be doing about once every 3/4 days) analyse the bits of your qr that didnt go quite as good, and bang out 50 questions in a row of that type of question on medify, and trust me youll pattern it.

For AR, it wasnt one of my strongest sections, got about 680 in the actual thing, but for any patterns you get wrong, take a screenshot, put them into a google doc, and the day before your ucat familiarise yourself with those patterns and see if you can remember them, cos they keep repeating. Good luck for your ucat, im sure youll do amazingly.

Thank you!!! I just did a mock and now its my verbal thats the lowest... it feels like it switches every day but my score stays the same! Anyway thank you for your help hopefully I can figure it out!

i also got 680 in verbal, my tactic was to quickly look through the questions, do the true/false ones first then move on to the harder sorts of questions. Hopeflly that helps