Hi, im in a relationship with my mums boyfriend and he is not blood relation so this is not against the law. I have lost my mum and most if not all of my family over this. I have loved this lad now for 3 years and i have been with him since December. I miss my mum a lot, and wish she could understand that i cant help the way i feel about her boyfriends son. I was wondering if my mum ever get around this, care and love me again. My mum was also planning to get married to my boyfriends dad in july and has now cancelled the wedding as she feels its wrong for me and my boyfriend (my boyfriend being my mums partners son) to be in a relationship and she feels uncomfortable about getting married now. I have also lost my dad ,brother, sister, uncle and nan over this because they all feel i am wrong. I do not live with any of my family and i live with a friend due to my mum not letting me live with her. Im only 17 years old and wish it could be easier. I dont want to have to lose this lad im with because he means so much to me. i know people are properly thinking you are young you dont know what love is or ill fall in love again. But i have never felt this way over someone and he makes me so happy. Even though i have lost everything the meant so much to me but he makes it feel like i have gained something so much bigger. So can i have your opinions, will my mum get over the fact im deeply in love with this lad or will i lose her for good?Just to clarify I'm dating my mums partners son