Just got into my first relationship. Thinking off ending it already. Am I a dick?
18. Never been in a relationship before or had female friends. Just got into a relationship and my girlfriend turns out to be deeply religious and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, I really love spending time with her and all but I am of course an ultra horny virgin. Obviously i don't want to pressure her or anything but will i be a dick if i end it ?
Original post by Anonymous
18. Never been in a relationship before or had female friends. Just got into a relationship and my girlfriend turns out to be deeply religious and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, I really love spending time with her and all but I am of course an ultra horny virgin. Obviously i don't want to pressure her or anything but will i be a dick if i end it ?
Just end it if you want to. There's no point in staying in a relationship you're not fully satisfied with/committed to - you're wasting her time and your time too.
You say that you don't want to pressure her, so you don't seem like a 'dick' in that respect.
Original post by SinsNotTragedies
Just end it if you want to. There's no point in staying in a relationship you're not fully satisfied with/committed to - you're wasting her time and your time too.
You say that you don't want to pressure her, so you don't seem like a 'dick' in that respect.
You say that you don't want to pressure her, so you don't seem like a 'dick' in that respect.
Are you both muslims?
Original post by robin567
Are you both muslims?
Erm what
Original post by Anonymous
18. Never been in a relationship before or had female friends. Just got into a relationship and my girlfriend turns out to be deeply religious and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, I really love spending time with her and all but I am of course an ultra horny virgin. Obviously i don't want to pressure her or anything but will i be a dick if i end it ?
Are you both muslims?
Original post by SinsNotTragedies
Erm what
sorry the question was not referring to you
Original post by SinsNotTragedies
Erm what
it's happening again 
do what you want, OP. I've been with a religious person before and ya know.. they're teenagers too. There might be some compromise between having sex and not doing anything at all.
There is an unwritten rule called you are only in a relationship if you have entered or seen the bat cave
Original post by robin567
Are you both muslims?
I'm atheist, she's christian
pitty 
Original post by Anonymous
18. Never been in a relationship before or had female friends. Just got into a relationship and my girlfriend turns out to be deeply religious and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, I really love spending time with her and all but I am of course an ultra horny virgin. Obviously i don't want to pressure her or anything but will i be a dick if i end it ?
If you just want sex and not to get married it's unlikely she will uncompromise and she'll understand if you do end it (this is coming from someone with similar world view to your girlfriend)
Just end it and try to find out what your girlfriend believes in future before getting into a relationship with them
Just break up with her and tell her honestly but in a way that doesn't put pressure on her.
You're not a dick, I don't understand how an atheist with a deeply religious Christian would work out in a relationship anyway.
You're not a dick, I don't understand how an atheist with a deeply religious Christian would work out in a relationship anyway.
Original post by Anonymous
18. Never been in a relationship before or had female friends. Just got into a relationship and my girlfriend turns out to be deeply religious and doesn't want to have sex before marriage, I really love spending time with her and all but I am of course an ultra horny virgin. Obviously i don't want to pressure her or anything but will i be a dick if i end it ?
No: being "a dick" would be not ending it.
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