How to tell your gf's mother that you're uncomfortable with her?

Point is, will I even get an honest answer out of a woman like this or will I just get ignored, a lie or accuse me?

Point is, will I even get an honest answer out of a woman like this or will I just get ignored, a lie or accuse me?

You're over-thinking a ridiculously simple task; just make sure that you're never in the same room alone with her.
Talk to your girlfriend and let her know that you're uncomfortable with being alone in the same room as her mother due to her overly flirty nature, and you don't want something like that (her flirty nature) coming between the two of you (you and your girlfriend). Simple.

Great so I am going to be uncomfortable every time I do over there and cannot do a darn thing about it?

It seems like confronting her would apparently be the worst thing.

Lately she hasn't been as flirty, she might be getting the hint, but for some reason I do not think it's over.

No, you completely missed the point. TELL YOUR GIRLFRIEND THAT YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE BEING LEFT ALONE WITH HER MOTHER DUE TO HER OVER-FLIRTY NATURE.

If your girlfriend doesn't leave you alone in a room with her, you have nothing to be uncomfortable about. Sorted
Either that or just stay in your girlfriends room. Or have her over at your place more often, whichever is easier and more suitable.

I've told her already. She thinks that's just her nature but doesn't think she will actually try anything. I think differently though.

I mean she pretty much said right in front of her daughter and I that if she messes things up with me that she's keeping me.

So I am not crazy, right? That does not sound like the typical stuff a mother says to her daughters bf's?

I thought maybe I was the crazy one thinking there was something there but as it turns out she may want to sleep with me.

My gf took that line to mean, "if she messes up the relationship with me, she'll still be friends with me". But who stays friends with daughters ex-bfs? It had to be innuendo.

I mean there is more, like the time she called me up and chatted with me over the phone for like two hours, she sounded like she was on something or a bit drunk and railed on about how bad her husband is.

Not to mention nearly everyone in the family knows about her infidelity, and especially if my gf's sisters warned her to watch out for me because "mom will try to get me".

But just to make this clear, this is not normal stuff that mom's tell their daughters bfs, right? Even in jest?

The last thing she did was take a photo of me on on the couch on my b-day, and sent it to my gf with the caption "big hunk".

Please advise. She's not ugly, but she's no MILF like Demi Moore. I am not attracted to her though.

Ok well if she says stuff like, "I wanted to take a picture of you with your shirt off and send it to your gf". "Tell your gf I'll trade her men" while lightly stroking your back. Also, talking about her relationship with her husband is dead and he ain't getting any from her. Also telling me to take off my shirt when I work on their yard.

Do these sound like normal things a girls mother tells her daughters bf?

2/10

Tell you GF first

why did you let her chat with you for 2 whole hours?
Don't let her do that again!