Guy just won't leave me alone, stalks me online, hes extremely OBSESSED

the people telling you that you shouldn't have lead him on are being very close-minded because I'm sure they must have done something similar at some point.

You and OP both need to watch a movie, its old but i assure you it's quite good, i would say check it out


Trading Places.


Look it up. You could both learn a valuable lesson from it.

Please just help me, Well about 2 ish years ago..Yes 2 years..When my family went on hoilday me and my sister made a bet (very foolish I know), like a 'pulling' kind of bet , to keep ourselves entertained.
It was only for 3 WEEKS, and this only happened really on the last week.

Anyways, I just had to pick this guy who I knew fancied me as I wanted to win the bet .He isn't a looker, I felt really bad for leading him on and even sick/dirty because I don't even fancy him. (it didn't do anything couldn't really go through with it most I did was a peck on the lips ON THE DAY BEFORE WE LEFT)

Not once did I say anything like 'were together' it's was like a one off thing, nothing serious and he knew it. We were both old enough to know this (17)

I did give him my number and email, because I felt bad.

But I wish I hadn't, the guy was calling at early hours of the morning, texting constantly and emailing me too.

I tried everything! blanking his calls and emails, some how he seems to think were an 'item' and in a relationship, he psychologically trying to twist words in emails he says how i 'promised him i wont leave him'. That is totally not true! why would I say that to someone I met on hoilday. and he keeps calling me his 'gurl' it makes me feel sick. Also staying stuff like he can't live without me and that he loves me.

I finally emailed him stating to leave me alone then changed my email address and number,Which was about a year ago.

Now about 2 months ago I created a facebook, and 2 days after my facebook was created he friend requested me (only has 11 friends on fb). I honestly found that very creepy knowing that he has been searching my name in search engines constantly for years. Needless to say, I ignore he's friend request then the following day he added me as a friend again, I ignore it about 5 times and he kept sending friend requests so I blocked him. A month later I cleared my blocked list hoping that he had gotten the picture but no, he was back friend requesting me a couple days later (see really obsessed the guy types my name everytime), Now hes been sending pokes.

I don't know what to do? I'm tired of being the nice girl I feel like telling him to leave me the **** alone and stop stalking me, my other email is filled with junk mail from him remember it's almost going to 2 years.

I feel hes partly doing this because i'm practically the best offer there is good looking (not to sound conceited), wealthy and live abroad.

I just feel sick any time I think of him, his face and everything.

What can I do? i've ignore the guy for about a year and a half and he's just not getting the picture?

serious advice please.

i'm practically the best offer there is good looking (not to sound conceited), wealthy and live abroad.

Block him and change your privacy settings so that you don't turn up on the search or in your friend's friends lists for people who aren't already your friends... If that makes sense!

Leave him blocked. Don't check your old email. Change your number.

What's the problem?

Why did you unblock him? Why haven't you reblocked him?

Also, you need to tell your parents about what happened so they don't go back there. Yes, you and your sister will look like bitches, but it serves you right for messing with people like that.

You're a bitch of a bitch for what you did to begin with but it's fair game i guess lol. Right honestly the best most serious and probably quickest and easiest (in the long term) option is obtaining a restraining order. if you telling him not to call you doesn't work then maybe Bubba making him his bitch will.

Oh also report 2 fb for harassment.

I have a guy who is in the early stages of doing that to me.

It does get scary but I think you should talk to someone about it. DON'T unblock him or give him hope of any sort by replying to his texts.

You don't deserve this. Everyone has done silly things they regret and the people telling you that you shouldn't have lead him on are being very close-minded because I'm sure they must have done something similar at some point.

Thanks for understanding, it is a little scary knowing in september i'll be going back there, I really don't want to go because of this.