Should I get labiaplasty plastic surgery at 15?

The thing is I think there's a massive cultural difference between other countries and the UK when it comes to this sort of stuff.

Like in Portugal after PE at school you have to shower or you can sometimes get sent home. Here in the UK you do PE and just put on school clothes on top of all the sweat and eugh. I can't imagine people having showers in the UK after PE because they always seemed so immature/uncomfortable when it came to that kind of stuff.

I do think there is a cultural difference. We never used to shower after PE, but to be fair I wouldn't know because standing around in a field during rounders didn't work up much of a sweat (I was never into PE)....

Calling us immature is a bit of insult. Cultures will have different standards and normalities and you will find the other differences if you go and live somewhere like, for instance, South Africa for a while. I respect your cultural norms and it should be mutual.

When I said immature, I was generally talking about the people that were in my school, maybe I should have stated that. I completely respect your cultural norms too.

I wouldn't say it's perfectly normal - mine strech out so far that they hang over my underwear, and create a bulge if I wear a swimming costume or bikini - would you say that's normal? I have to bend down in the street, or nip to the loo so that they will fall back into place and not end up covered in blisters/friction burns or bleeding! Having had mine checked, they portrude by 7cm which a lot of people have said to me is abnormal and definitely a medical condition!

It's hard enough having to put up with such a condition, yet on the other hand if you decide not to put up with it and get surgery, you then have to put up with people saying you just want it for plastic surgery reasons/vanity (not that you are saying that, but there is a lot of that attitude going around) - it's very, very uncomfortable.

Ah well school kids are generally immature in every country

I have a condition which is known as 'elongated labia', basically my labia sticks out and it looks really hideous. I have been recently self-conscious about it because I'm worried I will get dumped by a future boyfriend or he will be too disgusted to have sex with me or something like that. It's really embarrassing but only my mother knows, she is the one who first pointed it out when I was 13, then she took me to the GP. The GP said that it is 'normal' and my mother is worried that they would think I would be too young to have surgery done on it.

A labiaplasty is labia reduction cosmetic surgery, I'm not planning on having sex at my age or anything but I just want to be prepared for the future. It makes me feel so low because it looks soooo weird looking. Do you think I would be able to get surgery done on it now, or not?

P.S I'm not Khoisan.

Good lord.

I bet you're one of those incredibly shallow females who would dump a guy because his dick wasn't big or pretty enough.

Dick size is completely different from labia size. Labia only effect physical appearance (unless they're so big that a medical condition is involved). The size of a dick, however, can seriously reduce sexual pleasure for the woman. You're not comparing like with like.

I fully admit that if the size of a guy's dick prevented me from enjoying sex with him, I would have to break up with him, as sexual pleasure is important to me in a relationship. However, as long as it felt good, I would not care about how the dick looked. I don't see why this is shallow or hypocritical. If you disagree, please explain why.

Most women would dump a guy if his cock wasn't big (or at least avoid having sex or giving him blowjobs often). Average-sized ones apparently aren't good enough anymore. I also said that most women would dump a guy if his cock was "ugly".
Ask women and nearly all of them will say that they want the really big ones.

I'm 18, and I know exactly how you feel. I have a boyfriend, and we do have sexual intercourse, but I'm always wary and not showing him properly. I do wonder if it affects our relationship, because he does say to me why cant you show me? he knows I'm not confident with the way I look, but he accepts it. I am considering surgery. I know if I told him, he would disagree with me having it, but I want him to be attracted to me properly. I love him lots, and if I was completely confident, I know it would make a huge difference to our sex life. To be honest, it depends on how you feel whether you want to take surgery or not. I'm considering it, because I know no matter hard I tried, I wouldn't be able to be confident with how I look down there! It's a bid decision, especially at your age, I would wait a few years, you don't need to worry about it yet. Its hard giving advice, because sometimes it doesn't really make a difference, its how you feel inside and your confidence. People can say your beautiful etc, but you make think differently, if you think its affecting you and nothing could change that, then get it done. It's not a nice feeling I know, you wish you looked like other girls who are neat and tidy. But you can either change the way you look, or just embrace the way you are. Whatever you decide, its not a bad decision, so theres no need to worry! x