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So it's ok to not like black girls, but the reverse isn't?

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Original post by someonesomewherexx
Oh shut the **** up and take your condescending ass elsewhere...Back on topic, whether that statement is true or not, why do you pasty white males feel the need to tell us black girls that we are the least desired race, I don't understand the need to share this piece of information, it's not only on TSR but all over the damn internet :rolleyes: have an opinion but keep it to your damn selves :angry:


I think it has something to do with them being more interested in black females or the fact that black females could not give a' f*** most do not want white males. Nonetheless, the few (and this is a small percentage), that want white males boost their egos'. Plus, we have some hurt black females over the over exaggeration of black makes dating white females in the media so some our bitter and talk about getting the "white man", boost their silly egos further... :sigh:
Original post by Arnob204
The biggest penis on record is white, as is the biggest in porn.

Deal with it.


You mean the biggest penis that someone was actually willing for another person to measure was white...?
Yeah cool, just to clear that up

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Original post by someonesomewherexx
Oh shut the **** up and take your condescending ass elsewhere...Back on topic, whether that statement is true or not, why do you pasty white males feel the need to tell us black girls that we are the least desired race, I don't understand the need to share this piece of information, it's not only on TSR but all over the damn internet :rolleyes: have an opinion but keep it to your damn selves :angry:


It's usually the ugly ones too.
Original post by someonesomewherexx
Oh shut the **** up and take your condescending ass elsewhere...Back on topic, whether that statement is true or not, why do you pasty white males feel the need to tell us black girls that we are the least desired race, I don't understand the need to share this piece of information, it's not only on TSR but all over the damn internet :rolleyes: have an opinion but keep it to your damn selves :angry:


sorry if I sound patronizing but that fact that you couldn't grasp this simple concept forced the it. You might still not understand it, you might still not want to believe it, but it is there and it'll remain there for quite a while.
They can dish it but they can't take it.

The vast majority of people on this site are white.

Therefore more offence is taken when their general appearance is criticised. Due to being offended they attack.

The argument about black girls and their appearance does not negativity affect them. If anything it raises their ego.
Original post by short_n_proud
sorry if I sound patronizing but that fact that you couldn't grasp this simple concept forced the it. You might still not understand it, you might still not want to believe it, but it is there and it'll remain there for quite a while.


I'll tell you and I can't be more honest than I am now, this is a concept I grasp too well, you want to know why....it's because you(non-black/white guys) won't stop talking about it...blah blah black women are the least desired blah blah blah ...so would you please answer my question...why bring that fact up???
Original post by parallal
The same way it doesn't make the entire "black culture" racist.


As soon as black people get the same ( or much more ) money and wealth as white people they become as bad as the racist whities in the year 1920....
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Original post by Anonymous
Great points, however, being mixed race and black is completely different Halle Berry would not be considered a black women if she cannot claim to be white(50/50), then why is she put in the black category, this is another thing that F*** up black beauty standards including mixed chicks in the mix.

Not to say Halle Berry is not beauty as she is but she is not what most black people would call a "black beauty"


For some reason I think I prefer attractive black girls and white girls to mixed race girls. This is odd because I'm mixed race, it's just it seems if you are into white or black features then mixed race looks are kinda watered down in-betweens. Now, I would ofc date a mixed race person, just generally find them less attractive.

I'm mixed race with a golden complexion, dark hair, dark eyes, slightly rounder lips, low-cut hair and an attitude for ambition. I also have a thin slightly round and unobtrusive nose. For instance Kerry washington or kelly rowland are much more attractive than halle berry.
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Original post by edwinemanuelposse
As soon as black people get the same ( or much more ) money and wealth as white people they become as bad as the racist whities in the year 1920....


.... I'm not even sure why you typed this. You say "black people" as if it's every single black person that acts the way you're describing. And what do you mean they become as bad? I do apologize if I don't know how very wealthy black people act, seeing as how I know none personally. But you must know a lot of extremely wealthy black people to know how they generally act. I must admit, I am just so jealous.
Original post by Anonymous
Great points, however, being mixed race and black is completely different Halle Berry would not be considered a black women if she cannot claim to be white(50/50), then why is she put in the black category, this is another thing that F*** up black beauty standards including mixed chicks in the mix.

Not to say Halle Berry is not beauty as she is but she is not what most black people would call a "black beauty"


Yes, I suppose, although I do know some people with two black parents that are similarly light skinned, and could achieve similar features with makeup and relaxed hair.

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Original post by someonesomewherexx
I'll tell you and I can't be more honest than I am now, this is a concept I grasp too well, you want to know why....it's because you(non-black/white guys) won't stop talking about it...blah blah black women are the least desired blah blah blah ...so would you please answer my question...why bring that fact up???


This is the internet? you cannot expect one universal thread that discusses this topic, you will have lots of threads with a medley of varying stances.
Original post by parallal
.... I'm not even sure why you typed this. You say "black people" as if it's every single black person that acts the way you're describing. And what do you mean they become as bad? I do apologize if I don't know how very wealthy black people act, seeing as how I know none personally. But you must know a lot of extremely wealthy black people to know how they generally act. I must admit, I am just so jealous.


If one cant speak of people in general ( like for example white soccer hooligans ) it gets very difficult to start up any topic about negativity of some people on this planet....
The UK (and world's) biggest Student Forum housing one of the biggest free aides outside of state payment to education and the forums are still full with insecure people getting riled up over the preference of people's skin colour?

Well, this is disappointing.

At the end of the day, you can't help who you are attracted to. If a white girl likes black guys let her like black guys, you have about as much control over that than a girl who likes blue eyes or brown hair. Deal with it, I'm sure you have preferences too.
Original post by 2ndClass
Right.....yet you bitch on and on about how white guys will never find you attractive.... I mean seriously can you be any more desperate?


Woah woah! No need for that eh? You don't know the girl, don't attack her.


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Original post by edwinemanuelposse
If one cant speak of people in general ( like for example white soccer hooligans ) it gets very difficult to start up any topic about negativity of some people on this planet....


But why encompass an entire race within a negative view?
Reply 95
short_n_proud, you're just going to leave me hanging like that?
Original post by parallal
I'm just trying to wrap my mind around your mindset. I know I shouldn't waste my time seeing as how it's a Saturday night and there are far more constructive things to do. But hey, I have no social life.

Do you think there is a social backlash against black female/white male relationships?


no one cares about this. If they like each other they like each other. I don't see how this connects with anything discussed though. Sorry for leaving you hanging :smile: I didn't see the quote.
Original post by katyness
The majority of guys that wouldn't date black girls are also the guys black girls wouldn't normally go for anyway.Who cares?

That's quite true.

A lot of black women I know would be seriously offended of their black partner left them for a white woman.
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Original post by short_n_proud
no one cares about this. If they like each other they like each other. I don't see how this connects with anything discussed though. Sorry for leaving you hanging :smile: I didn't see the quote.


Hey, you told me you're not aware of any social backlash against black male/white female relationships. Just wanted to know if you're aware of the social backlash against the gender-flipped version.

Really, I'm not that concerned whether I'm on the top or bottom of a guy's racial preference list. I'm not attractive anyway (and no it has nothing to do with my race. Unlike some posters here on TSR I don't believe just being a certain race automatically makes one unattractive) so I'm not expecting any guy from any race to give me any attention. As long as they don't harass me or are at least civil to me if we have to interact, I don't care. But I am curious as to why people (especially on the internet) feel the need to constantly tell black females that the world thinks they are at the bottom of the barrel.
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People have double standards, human nature. Often the girls that complain that black guys like white women don't like white guys so it's the same thing.

Still I like how some people here assume everyone preferences are racially based or even that people stick to their so-called preferences. At the end of the day, if you're good looking you will attract more guys than people who aren't no matter what race you are. If you aren't getting the guys you want, it's because you're not that attractive and most likely have an inferiority complex (if you keep blaming your skin tone for lack of success).

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