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Feminist showing their true colours re lad mags

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Original post by Fullofsurprises
Forget harmful for a minute, let's focus on the question of what people would rather not see. Do you think women and children have a right to not have to be regularly faced with rows of extremely sexualised depictions of women when they are shopping in supermarkets?


Dodging the question, nice debating
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I bet I'm more fun at parties than Fullofsuprises and that's a new low because I haven't ever attended a party :confused:
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Original post by Fullofsurprises
For me it would be about where they are sold, but as they totally rely for their business model on sales in the Tescos and Sainsburys, then it's tantamount to calling for them to be closed down to demand a ban in those locations. The alternative, modifying their front page material, is something they've previously repeatedly refused to discuss doing.


u ever bought a lads mag?
May I just add, I can't seem to remember there being a furore over the cover of Rihanna's latest album 'Unapologetic' which is MUCH WORSE than you would see gracing the cover of FHM. What about some of the T-Shirts some people walk around in these days too? What about the degradation of women in some music video's like Rihanna's or Robin Thicke's Blurred Lines? I can't seem to remember any feminists kicking up about those, which in my opinion are a bit OTT.
Original post by Fullofsurprises
For me it would be about where they are sold, but as they totally rely for their business model on sales in the Tescos and Sainsburys, then it's tantamount to calling for them to be closed down to demand a ban in those locations. The alternative, modifying their front page material, is something they've previously repeatedly refused to discuss doing.


There was a suggestion that the magazines have sleeves, right? Like modesty dust covers. Hmmm.
Original post by Mr Snips
Dodging the question, nice debating


I've gone over my view of harmful in previous postings, so there's no 'dodging' - the question of voluntarism is a different point.

This is partly a classic 'liberal' problem - one person's must have is another's cannot stand.
Original post by gagaslilmonsteruk
May I just add, I can't seem to remember there being a furore over the cover of Rihanna's latest album 'Unapologetic' which is MUCH WORSE than you would see gracing the cover of FHM. What about some of the T-Shirts some people walk around in these days too? What about the degradation of women in some music video's like Rihanna's or Robin Thicke's Blurred Lines? I can't seem to remember any feminists kicking up about those, which in my opinion are a bit OTT.


There is a thread on here dedicated to that, actually! :smile:
Original post by Fullofsurprises
Actually there have in the past - the Sun, for example, was virtually driven out of Liverpool. However, the point is not the same - it's about established norms in society. Almost everyone finds most newspaper front pages to be within pretty widely accepted standards of taste and decency. (The odd one sparks controversy.) The lad mag covers are very different to the newspapers. Not all, but enough to be able to draw conclusions.


Yes, they are often far worse. Newspapers can incite prejudice, whereas lad mags are at the very worst symptoms of prejudice. Removing them from shelves is useless and a waste of time, they aren't even that explicit.
Original post by Fullofsurprises
Actually there have in the past - the Sun, for example, was virtually driven out of Liverpool. However, the point is not the same - it's about established norms in society. Almost everyone finds most newspaper front pages to be within pretty widely accepted standards of taste and decency. (The odd one sparks controversy.) The lad mag covers are very different to the newspapers. Not all, but enough to be able to draw conclusions.


So all you would need is for a bunch of religious organisations to get together, launch a campaign to "cover up" the front cover of women's magazines (which, as pictured in this thread, often mention sex etc on the covers), and you'd support that? Really?
Original post by Musie Suzie
There was a suggestion that the magazines have sleeves, right? Like modesty dust covers. Hmmm.


Co-Op have demanded that, partly just as a publicity point, but it's an amusing idea - they are so degrading that they need to be covered up. Yeah, I can go with that.

Alternatively, the lads mag sector could see that this is an issue that strongly concerns many women and could tone it down, but maybe that's too much to hope.
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First the online internet ban on porn, then the ban of mags in shops. /sadface

On a more serious note I do think the shops need to do a little more but putting mags like these into black "goody bags" is ridiculous.
Original post by neutralmilks
"Lad's mags" are completely different to women's magazines which may show a topless man on the cover (much less common than scantily-clad women on men's magazines). Misandry does not exist, much like "reverse racism". Men have not been subject to the degradation, hyper sexualisation and objectification which constantly plagues women today. Men are the dominant sex - we still live in a society which struggles against resistance to be patriarchal.
Moreover, "lad's mags" provide completely unrealistic expectations of women which are unhealthy for both self-esteem of women and the male treatment of women who may not live up to these standards (basically every woman, everywhere). Also I may remind you that it is perfectly legal for men to go topless in public as they are on the covers of few women's magazines - and yet if I went outside topless as a woman I would be arrested for indecent exposure.
I don't think this makes me a "Nazi", to be honest - wanting liberation of my fellow women cannot exactly be equated to the desire for extreme ethnic cleansing and eugenics...


I can make sexist jokes, but guys can't, or they're accused of being sexist.
I can wear a skirt OR trousers at work, but guys generally can't even wear shorts.
I - or rather, the Loose Women - can call men all the names under the sun, but they can't respond, or they're sexist.
I am at university.
Eventually, I will (hopefully!) have a job - but that hopefully! has nothing to do with my gender, and all to do with the current climate.
I can accuse a man of rape, but a man can't accuse me of rape.
I can falseley accuse a man of rape and have him either jailed indefinitely or tarred with a brush for the rest of his life. He can accuse me of making a false rape claim, and I'll get maybe a couple of years in jail.

Do you know what? I actually feel pretty liberated. You can stop fighting for me now. If you really care, why not stop headline-grabbing and attention seeking, and go to places where women are still oppressed - really oppressed, not "omg bewbz on magazines, won't somebody think of the women?" oppressed - and fight for THEIR rights.
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Just replace all the lads mags with a female sounding name and they can't have a problem with it.

What about changing "nuts" to "Goss?"
Original post by Fullofsurprises
Co-Op have demanded that, partly just as a publicity point, but it's an amusing idea - they are so degrading that they need to be covered up. Yeah, I can go with that.

Alternatively, the lads mag sector could see that this is an issue that strongly concerns many women and could tone it down, but maybe that's too much to hope.


And Loose Women could stop being such man-hating Feminazi wastes-of-space; and ITV could stop giving them a platform to air their drivel, but I don't think either of these things are going to happen.
Original post by neutralmilks
"Lad's mags" are completely different to women's magazines which may show a topless man on the cover (much less common than scantily-clad women on men's magazines). Misandry does not exist, much like "reverse racism". Men have not been subject to the degradation, hyper sexualisation and objectification which constantly plagues women today. Men are the dominant sex - we still live in a society which struggles against resistance to be patriarchal.
Moreover, "lad's mags" provide completely unrealistic expectations of women which are unhealthy for both self-esteem of women and the male treatment of women who may not live up to these standards (basically every woman, everywhere). Also I may remind you that it is perfectly legal for men to go topless in public as they are on the covers of few women's magazines - and yet if I went outside topless as a woman I would be arrested for indecent exposure.
I don't think this makes me a "Nazi", to be honest - wanting liberation of my fellow women cannot exactly be equated to the desire for extreme ethnic cleansing and eugenics...


So what about the female magazines, which still promote an unhealthy desire to have a models figure, associates said body style with attractiveness, plus to top it all off, actively promotes the idea that buying expensive clothes, handbags, jewellery, perfume increases sexual appeal, thus pressuring younger women into spending more money on frivolous items. Also creating a hierarchy of attractiveness and popularity according to wealth.
What right does one woman have to dictate what is wrong for other fully consenting females to do ? Think of all the lads mag models who are happy to have their pictures posted , these magazines are for pleasure alone and these feminazis have no right to say they cause mass objectification because tbh nowadays thats everywhere and its no ones fault but the females who consent to do it , page 3 models , adult film actresses , female nudity in music videos , no ones forcing them to do it ...

These "feminists seem to forget the core of the feminist movement , which is equality , surely if they wish to censor semi nude females on magazines they need to censor male ones .
Original post by Fullofsurprises
Forget harmful for a minute, let's focus on the question of what people would rather not see. Do you think women and children have a right to not have to be regularly faced with rows of extremely sexualised depictions of women when they are shopping in supermarkets?


There isn't a right to not be offended.


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Original post by umarsa

On a more serious note I do think the shops need to do a little more but putting mags like these into black "goody bags" is ridiculous.


It might make them more appealing, haha. Forbidden fruit and all that, suggesting they're something naughty.

Original post by madders94
I can make sexist jokes, but guys can't, or they're accused of being sexist.
I can wear a skirt OR trousers at work, but guys generally can't even wear shorts.
I - or rather, the Loose Women - can call men all the names under the sun, but they can't respond, or they're sexist.
I am at university.
Eventually, I will (hopefully!) have a job - but that hopefully! has nothing to do with my gender, and all to do with the current climate.
I can accuse a man of rape, but a man can't accuse me of rape.
I can falseley accuse a man of rape and have him either jailed indefinitely or tarred with a brush for the rest of his life. He can accuse me of making a false rape claim, and I'll get maybe a couple of years in jail.

Do you know what? I actually feel pretty liberated. You can stop fighting for me now. If you really care, why not stop headline-grabbing and attention seeking, and go to places where women are still oppressed - really oppressed, not "omg bewbz on magazines, won't somebody think of the women?" oppressed - and fight for THEIR rights.


Repped for bringing balance to the [force] thread.
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Most important problem here:

Will the 'modesty bags' be biodegradable plastic? It hardly seems fair to make the environment pay for this. :ninja:

Slightly more seriously: I think a lot of the reasons men have such a negative reaction to feminism is that it does seem to be a lot about making men more like women, rather than making both genders equal. If it's true (say) that men like sex more than women, then why is it more justifiable to say "There should be less sexualisation to protect women's liberties" than to say "There isn't enough sexualisation to protect men's liberties"? It really shouldn't be.

The laws already protect women in theory, but society hasn't changed its views entirely yet. Attacking the end product of what consumers want (e.g. lad's mags) isn't going to solve anything. As has been said, what you really need is to educate people that these magazines aren't the be-all and end-all of women.
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Original post by Algorithm69
She has a habit of moving the goalposts. I have to give her credit where credit's due, she may be an authoritarian with no evidence to back up her wealth of baseless assertions, but damn is she a good sophist. Everything can be twisted, reinterpreted, changed, dodged and modified with her.

Sounds about right. Actively shutting off her mind off to new ideas. Clinging on to her ideology no matter how much common sense contradicts it.

People should open their minds, neither gender is perfect; feminists playing the victim is getting old and helping no one.

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