Q for the guys: not telling your female friend you have a gf.

Anon please.

Odd question (feel a bit silly posting this to be honest) but have quite a good male friend at work, been friends for a year - 100% platonic. He's never mentioned he has a gf but he's talked about his gf continuously to one of our other mutual female friends, but has never brought her up with me. I'm happy for him and he's a cool guy.

Just think its odd since we're much closer and know each other for longer that he wouldn't ever bring up his gf. Its not even a big deal but I can't understand why he would always talk about his gf with her, when we've known each other for longer. I feel silly writing this and overanalysing a tiny thing.

Anyone have any comments? Cheers.

You'll never know until you ask him. Just stay cool, calm, smile and ask. You'll know if something going one. If he makes a big deal out of it, then something is up. If not, cool. But personally, as a guy...I don't have girls, women as friends and start talking about them. Only if something is going on.

just ask and see.

Could be coincidence, could be that he finds you attractive and doesn't want to think about his girlfriend when he's talking to you.

If I were you, I'd start asking about his girlfriend more often.

Perhaps his friend is friends with the girlfriend. Perhaps he wants to lead you on. Perhaps he likes you. You won't know until you ask him or you bring up the subject of his girlfriend more often.

I'm a guy who frequently doesn't mention his gf. Its pretty sad, but i like the illusion of courtship when talking to an available girl. I would never cheat, but its still exciting. I would mention it instantly on direct questioning though and deny all of this.

Anon please.

Odd question (feel a bit silly posting this to be honest) but have quite a good male friend at work, been friends for a year - 100% platonic. He's never mentioned he has a gf but he's talked about his gf continuously to one of our other mutual female friends, but has never brought her up with me. I'm happy for him and he's a cool guy.

Just think its odd since we're much closer and know each other for longer that he wouldn't ever bring up his gf. Its not even a big deal but I can't understand why he would always talk about his gf with her, when we've known each other for longer. I feel silly writing this and overanalysing a tiny thing.

Anyone have any comments? Cheers.

Or maybe perhaps he doesn't feel the need to inform you, and you're having illusions about getting closer.

Seriously, leave two people in relationship to be.

...Well I didn't realise I was coming between two people, but thanks so much for that sudden realisation. That's completely changed my plan from not mentioning anything... to not mentioning anything.