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guy gives girl his number, does he then expect her to text him or should he?

so you end up spending a night together after clubbing and instead of having sex end up listening to music and chatting and giggling till the early hours and falling asleep. when shes about to leave in the morning, they make a vague arrangement to meet up again. guy gives girl his number. she missed calls it right there and then.

as the guy what would you do/expect?

im the girl in question, I want to hear from him but havent texted him (not really sure how to make the first move and kind of dont want to, i like the traditional way of letting the guy do it) but as he gave me his number rather than take mine, does that mean hes expecting to hear from me?

feel so petty posting on a forum, but just curious about other peoples views! girls and guys both feel free to reply :smile:

Reply 1

PosionedMushroom

Personally I don't see why you can't just send a casual text and see how it goes from there.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by PosionedMushroom

Personally I don't see why you can't just send a casual text and see how it goes from there.

thing is i wouldnt even know what to say after a hey. lol :/

Reply 3

LogicDevelopment

Original post by Anonymous

thing is i wouldnt even know what to say after a hey. lol :/

Are you not acting like a bit of a creeper?

Reply 4

syrettd

Original post by Anonymous

thing is i wouldnt even know what to say after a hey. lol :/

'Hey, had a great time the other night! How are you?'

Reply 5

Ryejd

Poverty social skills. Typical TSR

Reply 6

jay2013

Send him a text asking him:

Hey, how's your studies going on?
Hey, how's your job going on?
Hey, have you heard any new tracks recently?
When are we going to do another sexless one night stand again, lol?
What are you doing this weekend?

Or make some reference to something you talked about during that night.

Reply 7

syrettd

Original post by jay2013

I've bolded my favourite one :tongue:

would love to receive one like that!

The reference to something you talked about on the night is a good option if you're too shy to send the bold one though.

Reply 8

McFlury

Original post by Anonymous

i like the traditional way of letting the guy do it

course you do :biggrin:

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by jay2013

When are we going to do another sexless one night stand again, lol?

Original post by syrettd

I've bolded my favourite one :tongue:

would love to receive one like that!

The reference to something you talked about on the night is a good option if you're too shy to send the bold one though.