What do you think of girls who hook up with guys in relationships?

She doesn't have any morals and he's a slimeball for wanting two different girls.
If she knows the gf, then she is a b****

Slags.

Agreed. Though what I don't understand is why people would defend her saying that the guy is at fault here because he is the one who has a gf and thus she isn't in the wrong despite the fact that she knew he had a gf and still got with him.

And wth goes on in these girls minds when they do this?! Is it some twisted form of validation that they can get with guys who are taken?? I mean it's hardly an acheivement since if these guys don't want to remain faithful then it doesn't matter who the girl is - she's just another pretty notch

Do you reckon these types of girls are more likely to be unfaithful in their own relationships?

I think both are wrong, I don't see one being worse than the other. They both sort of cheated whoever was going out with them. Whether they know the person they betrayed or not, it's still wrong and the person will hurt exactly the same.
If the person with the cheater doesn't know, then you can't really blame them.
If someone cheated on me with a girl that didn't know he was in a relationship, I'd be hurt by her but I wouldn't absolutely hate her the way I'd hate the guy. I hope I'd understand it isn't her fault, but it depends on how angry I'd be

It is often believed, as a defence mechanism, when cheating occurs we blame the person outside the relationship because we deny ourselves that our partner who 'loves' us could do such a thing

It also depends on the situation, whether there was alcohol/drugs involved and whether the people involved know one another

Agreed. Though what I don't understand is why people would defend her saying that the guy is at fault here because he is the one who has a gf and thus she isn't in the wrong despite the fact that she knew he had a gf and still got with him.

And wth goes on in these girls minds when they do this?! Is it some twisted form of validation that they can get with guys who are taken?? I mean it's hardly an acheivement since if these guys don't want to remain faithful then it doesn't matter who the girl is - she's just another pretty notch

Do you reckon these types of girls are more likely to be unfaithful in their own relationships?

How on earth are they both as wrong? The person who cheated broke a promise to a person whom they claimed to care about/love massively. The other person had casual sex with someone.
EDIT: though I do think it is different if they know the person. There is more of a betrayal then.

Yeah true, but I guess it's hard because if they person knew they were hurting someone but didn't know that person, but knew the person they were doing it with was in a relationship, then as the cheated person, I'd be disgusted with both of them, even if I didn't know the other. That's a good point though. I meant I'd blame them equally, but would obviously be more betrayed by the person I loved.

Yeah, I accept that you'd be disgusted with both of them, but it just seems that the person who has cheated has done the wrong and the other is wrong by being accessory to it - so not a good person but not as 'bad' as the cheater.

In general in my school it goes like this, the guy who did it is a legend but the girl is a slag. Not sure why it work's like that but oh well :L

"Only one key can open one lock, however if a key can open many locks, then it is a master key.

If a lock can be opened by many keys, then it is a **** lock."

Kind of a crude way to see it, but when you see the "keys" as men and the "locks" as women, it does kind of highlight double standards in society.

I ****ing hate that saying partly because that's basically how society is and partly because it shouldn't be that way because we're complex human beings not keys and locks.