Did you get a reward (money or something else) for getting good GCSE results? Also, what is your opinion of parents using rewards as an incentive to try hard?
I wasn't expecting anything really, the night before results I was told I could pick what to have for dinner (KFC! ), but I got other stuff too that I wasn't expecting at all. It was a nice surprise.
(Also, I know there was a thread similar to this early last year, but it was focused more on just money and how much of it is appropriate, so I thought I'd do a more general one, if that's ok - I'm fairly new here )
Nope, not really xD I got my mum crying on the phone after hearing my results and then countless phonecalls from relatives which mainly consisted of screaming down the phone I'm going to my Gran's tonight and she's invited the entire family round to celebrate my results. We're having pizza for dinner (my choice). My uncle has vowed to get me anything I want
I got my GCSE results last year but as a reward for doing well I got an iPod (mainly because my mp3 player had been broken for a while) which I wasn't expecting. I also went out with a meal with my parents and brother. This happened around a month or so after results though so it wasn't an immediate reward.
I don't think it's a bad thing that parents use rewards as an incentive to work hard but I think people should find other things to motivate them to work rather than expecting a reward every time they achieve something. Acknowledging the hard work that went into getting results is important but that doesn't necessarily mean that people have to be showered with gifts.
Nope, not really xD I got my mum crying on the phone after hearing my results and then countless phonecalls from relatives which mainly consisted of screaming down the phone I'm going to my Gran's tonight and she's invited the entire family round to celebrate my results. We're having pizza for dinner (my choice). My uncle has vowed to get me anything I want
Well if your uncle has vowed to get you anything, make sure to get something really expensive ;D ;D ;D
I got £100, chocolate, alcohol and a meal of my choice I always feel guilty when my parents get me things though, does anyone else feel like that? I do think that hard work should be rewarded though, but I would prefer to be rewarded with something that would last longer: food disappears within an hour in my house.
I wasn't expecting anything, but they did get me some new clothes as I did better than they expected it was great, though the real reward is knowing I can do the a levels I want to do for uni and not having to retake anything
For every A* I get £200. However, if I get an A or less I get nothing .I remember last year I missed out the £200 by 1 mark in statistics (the coursework let me down :'()
Did you get a reward (money or something else) for getting good GCSE results? Also, what is your opinion of parents using rewards as an incentive to try hard?
I wasn't expecting anything really, the night before results I was told I could pick what to have for dinner (KFC! ), but I got other stuff too that I wasn't expecting at all. It was a nice surprise.
(Also, I know there was a thread similar to this early last year, but it was focused more on just money and how much of it is appropriate, so I thought I'd do a more general one, if that's ok - I'm fairly new here )
My grandmother gave me £500, my parents gave me £80, and my brother gave me £20. I also went to Nandos. This was partly because I did much better than anybody expected (and well on a national scale), but also in my grandmother's case, because her other grandchildren had been given similar amounts for various other occasions.
I don't think parents should use rewards as an incentive to work hard. Grades should be a result of self-motivated hard work, not bribery. What's the kid going to do when they get to uni or when they go into the world of work? I don't think it's the right way to get somebody to work hard.
Did you get a reward (money or something else) for getting good GCSE results? Also, what is your opinion of parents using rewards as an incentive to try hard?
I wasn't expecting anything really, the night before results I was told I could pick what to have for dinner (KFC! ), but I got other stuff too that I wasn't expecting at all. It was a nice surprise.
(Also, I know there was a thread similar to this early last year, but it was focused more on just money and how much of it is appropriate, so I thought I'd do a more general one, if that's ok - I'm fairly new here )
My parents should be giving me £100+ for my results
I don't think it's a bad idea at all. When you get a job, you get paid for your work. People have the impression that we only do it ONLY for the reward, no we do it the good grades as well, the reward is a really just a bonus.
Noo xD My family took me out for dinner but that was it really. I don't feel like I should be getting something in return for my grades - they were my own goal, and reaching them was enough for me