Do some people just never have sex?

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I need money, I should create a charity where virgins donate money and I have sex for them.

Yeah, but it was different times back in her day. You had to get married first then. Its one thing to find someone who wants to marry you and another to get a quick shag.

See, I am worried that I fit that description. Ok, I have had two girlfriends - briefly, and neither of them worked out well - and one offer of sex, which in my naivite I didn't reckongise (my friends made sure i knew of my mistake afterwords). But apart from that its scarily close, at least to how I feel. Then again, I am only 18, not 30 or 103. Its just I don't seem to be moving any closern to having sex. Should I be worried?

No! Don't be worried! You're only 18 for goodness sake!

If you are worried, you'd do well to read some of Gilmartin's work (a lot of it is published online, you'll find it if you google it) and he found a big difference between 'younger love shys' and 'older love shys.'

The longer you wait, the harder it gets.

(DOI - I'm a girl who's after a loveshy man )

Serious answer to the OP

Brian Gilmartin wrote a thesis in the late 70s about love-shy males, a category into which he estimated 1.5% of men fall.

His criteria for love-shyness:

1) He is male.
2) He is a virgin.
3) He is a person who very rarely goes out socially with women.
4) He is a person without a past history of any emotionally close, meaningful relationships of a romantic and/or sexual nature with any member of the opposite sex.
5) He is a person who has suffered and is continuing to suffer emotionally because of a lack of meaningful female companionship. In short, he is a person who desperately wishes to have a relationship with a woman, but does not have one because of shyness.
6) He is a man who becomes extremely anxiety-ridden over so much as the mere thought of asserting himself vis-à-vis a woman in a casual, friendly way. This is the essence of "love-shyness".
7) He is a man who is strictly heterosexual in his romantic and erotic orientations. In other words, he is a person who is in no way a homosexual.

EDIT: I took the SHI test on www.love-shy.com and got these results:

You Scored 83

These are the typical scores for some groups of men

Self-Confidant Non-Shy Men: 114.3
Healthy College Males: 103.9
Young(University) Love-Shy Men: 47.8
Older Love-Shy Men: 38.6

This subject will probably be boring the tits off you by now. But do you reckon some people just die virgins? I don't mean that they get run over or die prematurely, but that they just get to a natural death without ever having sex? Or is it pretty much inevitable at some point if you go out, have friends, aren't hideous and don't turn down offers?

This subject will probably be boring the tits off you by now. But do you reckon some people just die virgins? I don't mean that they get run over or die prematurely, but that they just get to a natural death without ever having sex? Or is it pretty much inevitable at some point if you go out, have friends, aren't hideous and don't turn down offers?

Of course they stay virgins. What about monks, nuns etc?

Well, seeing as 98% of the worlds population tend to have sex at least once in their life. Not having sex would make you in the minority and abnormal, therefore a freak.