Ok, so here’s the situation. I’m 22 and I’m gay. I’ve neverhad a relationship before and I’ve only ever had four brief gay encounters.When I was young, my mum gave me “the talk”. She basically said if I ever needto tell her anything e.g. me being gay, then to always know she’s there to talkto.
Last year, I told her I was gay. She wasn’t surprised, infact it was more like “about time!” haha, so obviously she’s always known. Unfortunately,my father isn’t as accepting as my mother so I haven’t told him. I do howeverthink he suspects. I’m 22, never had a girlfriend and never talk about love, relationshipsor sex. I am painfully private about that sector.
Just so it happens I have met someone. It’s going reallywell and I’m discovering new feelings for this person. The problem is, he comesfrom an anti-gay family, so he can’t tell any of them. I’m too nervous tointroduce him to my mum as although she has told me she’d be supportive, I justdon’t have the confidence to tell her. I know deep down she would rather I wasstraight.
I just don’t know what to do. I live at home and I am veryclose to my mum and dad. I work full time and don’t get charged any rent, so Iconsider myself to be very lucky.
To sum it up, I might be entering a gay relationship and I’mscared to tell my parents in fear they will be disappointed in me and look atme in a different way. Any advice please? Thanks for reading!