girls what do YOU prefer a man that is respected or feared

matthewduncan

12

If you had to pick one

Reply 1

Cat2508

Respected

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Reply 2

catsis

11

I've been with a feared man before and it's very exciting.

But in the long run, I'd prefer him to be respected.

Respected.

Respected.

I honestly don't care either way; I feel like being with a feared guy would make me a bit nervy but being with a respected guy would make me feel inferior.

Reply 6

TristanSummerSim

'respect' is too broad a descriptive. Could mean anything from a soldier to Gandalf.

Respected

Respected definitely.

Reply 9

Meddabee

4

Respected. As he'd know how to respect me, because if he is clearly respected by others it means he must have showed respect towards them. Whereas a feared man, may not know how to show respect to me...and people will not like to be around him- I don't like being anti-social.

So respected...

Reply 10

sliceofcake

15

What kind of horrible man would he have to be to be feared?? I'd rather he be respected. Even if he wasn't horrible to me, he's still a dick

Reply 11

grozdeto

Its like asking what do you prefer chocolate or bread. Everyone knows the answer :smile:

Reply 12

SophieSmall

21

Respected obviously.

And I have no respect for anyone who uses fear as a form of power. Its cowardice and ugly.

Reply 13

WhimsicalSloth

2

Respected (and for good reasons!) I don't find intimidating people very attractive at all.

Reply 14

matthewduncan

OP

12

Original post by grozdeto

Its like asking what do you prefer chocolate or bread. Everyone knows the answer :smile:

So whats the answer?

Reply 15

Rum Ham

20

Respected.

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Reply 16

queen-bee

19

Why can't we just have both?

Reply 17

crozibear96

16

Respected. Less chance of him being a total dickwad.

Reply 18

Decorpi12

5

Respected.
Any man who relies on other people's fear for the sake of appearing powerful has security problems deep down, and instilling fear is a form of compensation. :tongue:

Reply 19

matthewduncan

OP

12

Original post by Meddabee

Respected. As he'd know how to respect me, because if he is clearly respected by others it means he must have showed respect towards them. Whereas a feared man, may not know how to show respect to me...and people will not like to be around him- I don't like being anti-social.

So respected...

And if the feared man did show respect to you? Would the answer still be the same?

girls what do YOU prefer a man that is respected or feared

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