What should I do about this female friend?

It's not about listening to your advice. I don't want to move on. I want her.

Told you guys, he's a nutter. There's not stopping him!! - well until he murders her and is sent to jail for life.

Get a hobby. Your current hobby seems to be anxiously waiting for her next reply. Make a list of what shes actually done for you, and what you've done for her. The former list should be quite small I presume. If you don't get the message to move on, you probably need help from elsewhere.

Just spend some time alone and listen to your heart. Right now with exams going on may not be the best time to go through with all the emotions of being in a relationship but again it's all about what your heart feels is right for you. Everyone in the world will find it easy to tell you to move on but only you know how hard that is for you. So don't force yourself into anything but just let everything reveal in its own time. There are 2 things you could do:

1) Wait. Let time reveal its path and destiny for you.

OR

2) Go out and grab your desired destiny.

The choice is your, not anyone else's!


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I'm not. I just want her. I can't decide what to do.

It's not about listening to your advice. I don't want to move on. I want her.

I just cannot decide what is more important for me. Having her in my life as a friend, or telling her how I feel (again) being most likely rejected, and then damaging the relationship altogether..

Everyone, STOP REPLYING. Even if this guy is a troll or genuinely lovesick/love-crazy over this girl, there is clearly something wrong with his mental state, and you are feeding his behaviour.

Clearly, advice is not needed here, either because he's getting a thrill out of winding people up, or he is ignoring it and will end up in prison for sexual assault or murdering his "love". Frankly, all these threads are scary as hell to read, so what is the point in exacerbating things?? You are all online, someone physically there will have to drag him to get help, or he himself will get into trouble. Either way, TSR members can do bugger all about it.

And as for the OP; get a life, get better, and most definitely get off here.

Circles. You're going in them.

Definitely not a troll. Is there anyone here that understands what I am going through? I know deep down I can't have her. I'm trying to accept that fact. But it's difficult. I think about her all the time. The fact that I think I have a chance with her is just me in denial I guess.

Definitely not a troll. Is there anyone here that understands what I am going through? I know deep down I can't have her. I'm trying to accept that fact. But it's difficult. I think about her all the time. The fact that I think I have a chance with her is just me in denial I guess.

I won't kill anyone haha that's funny you think that.

I guess I have been treating her like she is more than a friend and it's come to the point where I realise what I have been doing and I am just struggling to come to terms with it all.

And I don't want to lose her from my life.

I may say to her I need some time away from her to find myself again.

I really like her and having her in my life is more important than my feelings for her.
I wish things were different but it's time to stop fantasizing and look at the reality.

Yes, because no man ever lost control when he pined for and stalked a woman he couldn't have. I've known men like you, and every time, threatening behaviour eventually came into it.

You sound like Jake Gyllenhaal in "The Good Girl". Obsessive and unhinged. Even if you did have a chance with this so called best friend, it sounds like you'd both screw it up with your clingy needy behaviour and her neglect. Once you see unrequited love for what it actually would be, that takes the rose tint off.
Also, when did anyone's life story solely depend on knowing ONE person out of billions for 2 years?