What should I do about this female friend?

I got 3 missed calls and more text messages from her (from another number). She said come on whatsapp and talk otherwise she will come to my house. I didn't respond. I cannot focus. I'm going crazy here

I got 3 missed calls and more text messages from her (from another number). She said come on whatsapp and talk otherwise she will come to my house. I didn't respond. I cannot focus. I'm going crazy here

Oh my god hahahaha. You're retarded.

I got 3 missed calls and more text messages from her (from another number). She said come on whatsapp and talk otherwise she will come to my house. I didn't respond. I cannot focus. I'm going crazy here

Tell her if she doesn't stop harassing you then you will take legal action (even if you won't). This is now frankly turned into harassment, you have explicitly told her you want to be left alone and she is ignoring your request and threatening to enter your property. She is completely out of order. If you have to block unknown numbers from your phone so she can't reach on phones whose numbers you don't already have.

This girl has treated you like **** for a long time, YOU are now the one putting your foot down and what you say right now goes. She has to piss off.

Why?

I'm sorry, but what exactly do you expect us to do? A lot of people have given real, constructive advice and you just carry on insisting that you CAN'T do this, and you WON'T do that. Let's be honest - you don't really want advice, you're clearly a masochist that likes to be chained to something wholly inconsequential and you love to be the proverbial bleeding heart. You are in complete control of your feelings and if you really wanted to change them you could. You're not in love with this girl, you just love the idea of being in love. Stop wasting people's time asking for advice when all you really want is a stage to showcase your pathetic 'dedication'.

It's not the fact you're feeling this way it's the fact you can't internally think things through without reassurance from people who have absolutely no idea what your situation is. You should reassure yourself, be introverted and sort it out. I don't think you'll listen, but I've explained for you. A couple of questions here and there is fine, but you're not actually taking time to think and process and eventually picking up strategies to move on. You've got to reach a conclusion.

Step 1. THINK RATIONALLY and don't rely on other people to put the pieces together. You have to do that yourself, otherwise it's artificial. They can't convince you of anything. I've been there.
Step 2. Recognise this is not healthy, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Read the last couple of pages, he's doing great

I think you have a point here. I can't seem to think for myself and I need to constantly ask people. What does that say about me?

How can I change this?

You need help.

Honestly I'm not even joking.

You have been posting about this girl over and over again for months now, you always say the same thing and you always get the same advice, but you never take the advice.

Get a counsellor and get over her.

Edit: I've just checked you have made 34 threads about this girl over the past 5 months. That's not even close to healthy.

oh my god I thought you were joking, OP please stop, this acc isn't healthy, there are lots of other girls around

Read the last few pages.

There's a simple solution to all this and it does not involve professional help. You need to get out there and meet new women. IT IS AS SIMPLE AS THAT. The more women you meet, the more choices you'll realise you have, and the quicker you'll get over this girl.

And don't be a pushover, don't be that guy. Don't always help her. Don't always be available to her.

youre wrong, friends are always there for eachother. You shouldnt turn your back on friends EVER- what kind of guy are you telling him to do that, obviously he is fragile