What should I do about this female friend?

I have way too much free time, it's summer. It's not like I've got anything better to do right now.

FFS I'm going to end up getting banned again because TSR keeps putting me as anon ...

This thread has been going on for months and months now ... so long that I've been able to have my stomach opened, a stone removed and my scar healed.

You need to sit back and look at the bigger picture. You, along with many other users have given him excellent advice (I'm serious). You've told him that he should consider reaching out to a professional to deal with his obsessions. He has chosen not to and is continually posting on this thread for some reason - likely to be attention.

You need to unfollow this thread and move on.

Before you submit your comment always make sure the box that says "make post anonymously" isn't checked.

I do post on here a lot less, I ignore it most of the time. I'm not getting anything negative from this thread. If OP is then sod it I don't really care about him, I just comment every now and again to see where it goes.

What if we unfollow this together and I follow you

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Lol! I literally just told you how to not do that! Gawwwd you're as bad as OP

I blocked her like everyone said. I don't want to get professional help after 1 day. I want to try and move on myself. At least you could give me some moral support.

It's not after one day, it's after one and a half YEARS. We've been trying to give you moral support and you keep throwing it back in our faces. I don't know what you want us to do

I don't know either. But I woke up today and I feel like messaging her and begging her not to do this. I cannot stay angry at her for more than a day. I feel lost and lonely without her.

This is exactly why you need to get help. This is really unhealthy and it's not normal. No matter what you try to tell yourself, this is NOT the way most people act when they lose a close acquaintance (I say acquaintance because she is not a friend). No matter your excuses, this is not normal behaviour and you need professional help. But you won't. You'd rather be miserable

I don't like to be miserable. I just really don't like the way she treats me. I care about her so much and she treats me like this. It hurts. I feel lonely without any girls to talk to and I don't have any confidence left now.

I don't like to be miserable. I just really don't like the way she treats me. I care about her so much and she treats me like this. It hurts. I feel lonely without any girls to talk to and I don't have any confidence left now.

My current boyfriend and I started out as friends in a pretty similar predicament as you and your friend. Only after we started dating did he let me know that he had apparently been wanting to ask me out for ages now... my advice is to not do anything (as of now). See what happens with her and her present boyfriend, if you guys are meant to be then it will happen, just have faith. If by the time is right it will happen don't worry.

Have you actually read the posts? He obsessed over her, she constantly begged him to leave her alone and now she's blocked him. Despite this, he insists on constantly talking about her, refusing to get help. Please don't encourage him

Try contacting some of these organisations or GP:
http://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/helplines/
http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/3GFtMl8mZ3Lw3qN8n4ZtjYS/information-and-support-victoria-derbyshire-20-07-2015

please just try & email, or chat to these professionals! I beg you!!!

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