What should I do about this female friend?

That's not her fault, your just her bitch. Stand up for yourself man.


Probs will since you can't let go! Again that's your fault not hers.




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I will not let myself be taken advantage of in the future, and I certainly won't be anyone's b*tch.

Well inside me I have this hope that maybe she will talk to me again and we can be friends again. Even after everything that has happened, I can't hate her. I just can't.

:/

I really need help. I sound so pathetic wow. Not healthy at all. Could you give me some sort of constructive advice that I could use?

We finish for the summer next month and then I probably won't see her again until October. I think this might help?

I will do this. I have no chance with her at all. Something inside me thinks I have a hope, one day. Very bad idea and thinking.

Really need to get a grip. I'm ruining my life because of this.

Do you have any words of advice?

I think you should still try to be her friend but just dont let her use you like it seems she has been. Maybe distance yourself from her for a while, as in dont initiate a conversation her. If she calls or texts you, reply - theres no point in being rude.

If you have been fixated on her for a while and she has never confronted you about it or explained her feelings about you move on. You deserve better than that.

The bits in bold are two contradictory statements. You can't hate her and you want to be her friend; you KNOW that you'll do anything she asks. Grow up.

My advice is really simple.

Go after another girl.

Not only is this normal, but you'll be distracted from this other one.

You get over it, and you have some fun. It's a win win.

A lot has happened since then. Please read some more recent posts before commenting. She has been begging him to leave her alone, and has threatened to go to the police over his obsessive actions. Please please don't encourage him to contact her

This whole thread is just the ramblings of a castrated boy. I truely hope he is miserable.

You're evil. And that's not a nice thing to say.

I don't really care what you think of me, because at least I'm content with the fact I'm not a creepy stalker and I have a life, friends and a boyfriend.

You on the other hand have none of that, and the only person to blame is you. You refuse to acknowledge that and you refuse to genuinly put efforts in to change that. The "attempts"you say you have made are pathetic at best, barely trying at all. So I'll say it again I hope you really are miserable.

I don't really care what you think of me, because at least I'm content with the fact I'm not a creepy stalker and I have a life, friends and a boyfriend.

You on the other hand have none of that, and the only person to blame is you. You refuse to acknowledge that and you refuse to genuinly put efforts in to change that. The "attempts"you say you have made are pathetic at best, barely trying at all. So I'll say it again I hope you really are miserable.

This is what he doesn't seem to understand. We both lead happy lives, and are trying to advise him on how to move on and have a chance at leading a happy life too. But he won't have it. He would rather be miserable and complain about it, then get annoyed at us when we point out how unhealthy his behaviour is. I agree that he isn't trying, and he really does deserve to be miserable when he won't make an effort to change

All I hear is "get professional help" and I said I made an appointment for friday.

Considering how much you have blatantly lied and changed your story on this thread I find it hard to believe. You'll probably just go the appointment, talk about chest pains and completely leave out the fact you are unhealthily obsessed with this girl. Because that is what you do, you ignore the blatant and important facts. It's pathetic.

I didn't lie. Going and saying oh I am obsessed with a girl isn't so easy.

I just want her to talk to me again and be on good terms. But she isn't doing that and I am very upset.