What happened?

Hi all,

In a state of shock right now.

Someone I met last December, we've seen each other twice. Every time we've met, we're chatty & end the night with a kiss & a cuddle. Due to his job don't see him often but this weekend he was home. Went out last night with some friends & I bumped into him. To cut a long story short he made his intentions quite clear he wanted to spend his night with me?! I iff'd & butt'd & eventually caved to going to his place.

As I expected we ended up having sex, however he kept going on about not using condoms & etc, & I was adamant that I wanted to keep using. Just as he was about to ejaculate, he pulled out & covered his sheets in cum, which immediately shocked me as I know he had a condom on. I said "Where is it?", he said "It must've come off", my gut tells me he deliberately took it off & had unprotected sex with me, despite my pleas that I did not want to. :-(

Only a few weeks ago I went for a full STI check after building up the courage to get tested, & everything came back negative. Now I'm going to have to go again :-(. I actually feel violated too.

No idea why I've written this but any advice would be helpful.

Thank you. :-(

he lied and tricked you, going unprotected without your consent.. i suggest not seeing him again and blocking him..

I'm not going to see him again, I feel so so sick :-(. We started off using condom but I have no idea when "it came off". I only realised when he said "I've got to stop..in about to cum"...he pulled out & cummed on his sheets!!

I feel like crying!....

are you on birth control? cause you can get pregnant from pre-cum before the main ejaculation.

Yes, I'm on the coil. Although that's not 100% effective!

oh dear..

Like most contraceptive, they're not all 100% effective! Although the condom & pill are more effective than the coil, I think; 1% between them!

thats pretty good

But there's always that 2/3%!! Which is why I never take risks. I'm more concerned over the STI factor?!

maybe the condom is still inside of you.

No, it's not!

don't e-yell lol seriously, it's happened you know. I'm glad you checked, though

I saw it in the bed, after he said "it came off" do definitely not in me! :-(

so what's the problem? did you get a pregnancy test?

This happened 6/7hrs ago! My OP does ask for thoughts. No point doing pregnancy test!

Just in a bit of shock to be honest. :-(

Hi all,

In a state of shock right now.

Someone I met last December, we've seen each other twice. Every time we've met, we're chatty & end the night with a kiss & a cuddle. Due to his job don't see him often but this weekend he was home. Went out last night with some friends & I bumped into him. To cut a long story short he made his intentions quite clear he wanted to spend his night with me?! I iff'd & butt'd & eventually caved to going to his place.

As I expected we ended up having sex, however he kept going on about not using condoms & etc, & I was adamant that I wanted to keep using. Just as he was about to ejaculate, he pulled out & covered his sheets in cum, which immediately shocked me as I know he had a condom on. I said "Where is it?", he said "It must've come off", my gut tells me he deliberately took it off & had unprotected sex with me, despite my pleas that I did not want to. :-(

Only a few weeks ago I went for a full STI check after building up the courage to get tested, & everything came back negative. Now I'm going to have to go again :-(. I actually feel violated too.

No idea why I've written this but any advice would be helpful.

Thank you. :-(

eventually caved to going to his place.

despite my pleas that I did not want to. :-(

I actually feel violated too.