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Oh! Well that's better then!

I went a few months ago when I got my implant taken out, and when they took the blood test they said it isn't detected until after 3 months! I wasn't worried and had gone past the 3 month mark anyway, but maybe it was a cheaper test that takes longer haha. I got the all clear for everything anyway!

Don't even try to message him, if you have caught something, chances are he knows (since he was acting so suss).
I would name and shame instead (amongst friends), because otherwise he might do the same to other women.

God knows then. But you can get those Rapid test things nowadays, can detect after 9-11days! So technology is definitely advancing.

What do you by "chances are he knows"? Sorry if that sounds a bit dim; I'm just so panicky & worried right now. My message was a simple "Can I ask a quick Q?", I made no reference to the night, just wanted to see if he'd respond. I'm just really shocked at his behaviour because I had him down as a gent; all dates we'd been on we're very gentleman like & etc. he himself said "My nanas always taught me to treat women with respect".....

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Original post by MissDetermined

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I feel so cheated, humiliated & used. I know I consented to sex, I set the boundaries. But he crossed it without my consent which is the most harrowing & upsetting thing. 8 years ago, someone forced themselves on me, & I caught Chlamydia! This whole thing has brought home all those feelings of feeling sick, nauseous, with anxiety going through the roof. A situation I hoped I would never experience again, & here I am again going through a similar problem.

I'm terrified more than anything. :-( :-( :-( :-(

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Because this is sending me insane, I've called a helpline....Sexual Assault of some form is what I've been told.

:-(

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UPDATE:

3 days later, the guy responded to my message....thought I'd do the same & ignore him for 3 days too! So I've said nothing!

I'm now suffering from a sore throat; I should add I didn't give this guy oral sex, didn't feel comfortable doing so.

The Rape counselling team have also said I have NOT suffered sexual assault, so there's nothing I can do.

My genitals are ok at the moment; itchy because I decided to remove the hair myself (bad move), but nothing nasty is appearing. Also, my period (I think) is trying to start. With the coil it takes a few days before the flow really kicks in.

Overall, still feeling incredibly upset & anxious but managing it all ...just! Will update the thread bit by bit...