Hi all, I'm almost a final year,
I understand that there is a necessary hierarchy in medicine. Obviously, the consultant has the most experience, hence takes the more complicated cases/has the most say - this is necessary. I really dislike the social hierarchy though. I hate how the juniors are treated with disrespect from some registrars, only to see that they are, in turn, disrespected by the consultants.
And, by disrespect, I don't mean being treated like rubbish. I mean just being rude. More rude than is acceptable in most other social situations. The condescension or the 'i'm not going to give you instructions, but you need to watch my every move to see when I choose to scrub even though I've sat here for 15 minutes doing nothing' or the 'you're a junior ... i look down to you' or the 'DO X, even though I haven't explained anything to you.'
I think it annoys me because I've tried to act as respectful as possible in my regular life. For example, I want to work with the homeless and I see how badly they're treated sometimes. We, healthcare professionals, are considered role models in many societies, but this can lead to arrogance, it appears.
And it's the social hierarchy that is the only aspect of clinical medicine that I detest. That being said, I'm not going to generalise (although over 50% of the people on my rotations are quite rude, it seems). It has been really bad in previous years (having been horribly yelled at for little reason etc.), but now the little things just seem so annoying. I just want to say didn't your parents teach you any manners? Also, in my experience, the majority of the nurses/non-doctors are awesome, it's often only the doctors who are just ... they really have no right to treat anyone with anything but respect (as we are taught to treat other human beings!)
Lol mini rant. Anyone felt the same way? How do get over it internally? I've got a pretty thick skin, so it doesn't affect me at work/hospital etc. And I'm very liked by most people I work with - I just have my inner conscience saying that it's wrong and I'm not the type to laugh at jokes that I do not find funny just so others like me/say things that I don't mean/start conversations with people who are rude to me to try and befriend them