Firstly, I'm in no way a gold digger - so please read on before you pass judgement.
I've been with my boyfriend for the last 6 months, he's great, we are great and he's all I ever wanted. Trouble is, he's 25 and working a minimum wage job, pays rent and bills every month, that he doesn't have a lot of spending money. I probably earn more than double what he gets and have less expenses, so I have more spending money.
It's really frustrating because the things I want to do, he can't afford. We booked tickets for a holiday in a few months, and we are staying in a grotty 2* hotel because he thought the others were " a bit steep". He's asking how much spending money " we should bring" when quite frankly, I want to spend more than him, shop and have a good time, without being on a budget. Just now, his friends have asked him to go on a day out to the zoo later this week for a laugh and he's invited me, and is now back tracking saying the £25 tickets are expensive and " we are saving up for the holiday". So he's going to suggest to his friends to have dinner and drinks, and we can just go and have a drink or two and not eat.
I'm agreeing with him "yes we need to save up" when I already have the money.
I'm just getting sick of not being able to enjoy what I want to do with him. There's such nice places we can go to, but it's "expensive" according to him. I'll happily pay for myself, I'll happily pay for both of us - but his pride obviously wouldn't let me do that.
Anyone have any suggestions???