What support systems are available for LGBT muslims?

Your view of human decency is just your culture's view. Thinking that you have a right to impose your culture's view on others is indeed colonialist.

No, you confusing multiple things.

For example, being nice and being kind are not the same.

My view on human decency is not my cultures view, it is my own.

I do not have to respect someone ideology to be kind to them.

I would love to hear about some great lgbt Muslim resources!

I am not muslim, but i know the struggle of conflicting sexuality with faith

I'm not sure that I'm following, what is the implication for my argument of your claims here?

You are saying that we should respect people regardless of who they are or what they believe or how they behave.

I'm saying that's rubbish and thet we should respect people only on the content of their character and should it be found to be lacking the they should be rightly criticised for it.

As I said, respect is earned. And I'm pretty sure that respect is defined the same way throughout all cultures not just my western imperialist one you keep saying. I think youre confusing respect with admiration and/or tolerance.