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ok im 16 and have an issue with two best mates
one fancies me and i want the other and im pretty sure he wants me! but how do i no 4 sure? is their any way to no?
basically i think i need tips on how to make the guy i like want me and get rid of his mate
sophie xxxxxxxxxxx

Reply 1

Elle

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ok im 16 and have an issue with two best mates
one fancies me and i want the other and im pretty sure he wants me! but how do i no 4 sure? is their any way to no?
basically i think i need tips on how to make the guy i like want me and get rid of his mate
sophie xxxxxxxxxxx

lol- i think you need a guy to help you on this one

Reply 2

Adhsur

15

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ok im 16 and have an issue with two best mates
one fancies me and i want the other and im pretty sure he wants me! but how do i no 4 sure? is their any way to no?
basically i think i need tips on how to make the guy i like want me and get rid of his mate
sophie xxxxxxxxxxx

How wonderful of you to want to get rid of your best friend - the one who likes you!! :rolleyes:

Reply 3

Gina17

3

just go for someone else if this situation is too complicated!!

Reply 4

Bhaal85

9

Just tell him up straight. Cause the one who likes you will be feeling like he is being led on, so tell him upfront that you dont fancy him, yes he will sulk and probably not talk to you, but will thank you in the long term.

Reply 5

curryADD

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ok im 16 and have an issue with two best mates
one fancies me and i want the other and im pretty sure he wants me! but how do i no 4 sure? is their any way to no?
basically i think i need tips on how to make the guy i like want me and get rid of his mate
sophie xxxxxxxxxxx

are these your friends or are they your best friends.......never go out with a best friend period, you know to much about each other and when you break up they know all your weak spots. it just makes a general mess of things. trust me!

Reply 6

Vienna

12

curryADD

are these your friends or are they your best friends.......never go out with a best friend period, you know to much about each other and when you break up they know all your weak spots. it just makes a general mess of things. trust me!

or it is fantastic..trust me!

Reply 7

Adhsur

15

curryADD

are these your friends or are they your best friends.......never go out with a best friend period, you know to much about each other and when you break up they know all your weak spots. it just makes a general mess of things. trust me!

Well I wouldn't go out with someone who I couldn't class as my best friend :tongue:

Reply 8

Eru Iluvatar

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curryADD

are these your friends or are they your best friends.......never go out with a best friend period, you know to much about each other and when you break up they know all your weak spots. it just makes a general mess of things. trust me!

Well thats a rather pessimistic view on people. But its a shame its totally true :frown:

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Reply 9

curryADD

12

Iluvatar

Well thats a rather pessimistic view on people. But its a shame its totally true :frown:

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yes well, my best friends tend to get really "cozy" with each other, and its not much fun when one of them breaks up and there like "pick sides"! and i do kno from experience, went out with jake once, totaly mess, every1s feelings got hurt...lemme tell you, it sucked!

Reply 10

Adhsur

15

curryADD

yes well, my best friends tend to get really "cozy" with each other, and its not much fun when one of them breaks up and there like "pick sides"! and i do kno from experience, went out with jake once, totaly mess, every1s feelings got hurt...lemme tell you, it sucked!

Do you go to primary school? :tongue:

Reply 11

Vienna

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curryADD

yes well, my best friends tend to get really "cozy" with each other, and its not much fun when one of them breaks up and there like "pick sides"! and i do kno from experience, went out with jake once, totaly mess, every1s feelings got hurt...lemme tell you, it sucked!

how old are you?

Reply 12

curryADD

12

Adhsur

Do you go to primary school? :tongue:

NO- high school! quite a difference...i was out of elementary a LONG time ago!

Reply 13

nikk

15

Be honest, tell them straight what your position is. Don't lead anyone on - it's totally out of order.

Reply 14

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curryADD

yes well, my best friends tend to get really "cozy" with each other, and its not much fun when one of them breaks up and there like "pick sides"! and i do kno from experience, went out with jake once, totaly mess, every1s feelings got hurt...lemme tell you, it sucked!