i become really mean to guys when im drunk???

so instead of being more confident around guys and being flirtatious, I become soooo mean to men when I'm tipsy/drunk, like unnecessarily (jokily) being mean. i don't pull men when I'm sober bc apparently I'm too "intimidating" (looks/personality), and honestly, alcohol doesn't fix it. what do I dooooo

what to guys think of girls who have mean banter around them? like borderline *****y but funny at the same time??

okay so example of what i say

" oh my gosh you literally are as boring high as you are sober. why do you waste your money on it, dont even bother" insert laughter.

oh god.

So you think you're funny do you?

You probably should manage your alcohol, so you dont come across as too mean that you put people off



I would respond:

“oh, haha, my bad. I was just matching your energy as you were really dull to talk to. No offence though, you are still really beautiful. At least that can supplement your personality” insert laughter.

Your example is more on the mean than the funny side of banter and I can imagine it not always landing the best

haha I have a massive tolerance so I mostly only drink until i'm tipsy

lmaoo fair enough, most of the guys just look upset and don't reciprocate the banter

okay so example of what i say

" oh my gosh you literally are as boring high as you are sober. why do you waste your money on it, dont even bother" insert laughter.

oh god.

you almost hurt my feelings there