what is the purpose of mose convos you have in a day?

it's more about reading the room and understanding the context ig. If you're close with that person or its a sentimental/similar vibe then deep conversations are acceptable.

yh true true i'm usually all for light banter and gossip but i kinda have noone to talk to about this one thing rn and sometimes it accidentally slips out in casual conversation lol. ik that's pathetic and oversharing is annoying but i'm feeling so ******* lonely rn cos i don't have a bestfriend or so i can talk about stuff with atm...
it's pathetic ik

No idea what the other people's intentions are, my primary goal for most conversations I end up in is to get out of the conversation though.

I feel like that rn too ngl. I don't feel comfortable telling my friends about problems I have. imo it's not pathetic bc wanting to vent and let your feelings out is totally normal. Venting to people who don't know me irl is so much easier or people i'm not close with because i most likely won't talk to them ever so their opinion doesn't really bother me. If you want i'm free to listen.