Relationship Therapy/Counselling

It's a last resort if you can't sort it out between you.

Stop making lots of threads on this and use the time to talk to her? What does she mean by being alone if you are going to live together? You never answered that.

Well Surnia we used to practically meet about 2-3 days a week and we were clingy and obsessed to each other although, she said I need to accept the fact whilst we will be healing I won’t be seeing her as much and get to grips I’ll be alone for example when living under the same roof we have a argument we won’t not make up or resolve it and then not sleep or eat together.

If you can't resolve things now it won't work out when you live together.

Got it! Therefore the break is in place we are communicating well but won’t see each other until she says and feels ready to do so. How long may it take for her to feel ready..

Is relationship therapy worth it. Me and my partner are currently on the “healing” stage looking to fix things between us for our relationship to get back to how it was before I’m struggling to the terms of the fact that I won’t be seeing her as much as she said I need to understand the concepts of being alone sometimes. This is due to the fact that even though it is a short distance relationship we’d meet at least 2 maybe 3 times a week, I thought it was best so that we could both see each other, express any concerns or fears but she said this time it’ll be according to her when we will meet.