Am I over thinking?

So my recently new mate is talking/ has been talking to this guy for a while now and she’s on Snapchat and I sent her something and I’m on delivered for ages.. I joke with her saying that she’s snapping her bf and leaving me on delivered I see how it is.. she says no she’s not when she was on snap like 1 min ago.. then she says she saw what I put but can’t listen since she’s at work and she says she’s not messaging anyone.. then after we had that discussion she’s turned her snap Bitmoji off and I just said to her “I’m sorry I don’t mean to be crazy lol it’s just sometimes I’m left on delivered for bloody ages and you’re on snap n I’m like what ? I dunno i just want to be liked lol . As you can see I’m over thinking 🤣 xx” since this has happened it kinda reminded me of my ex mate who would ignore me and stuff and make me crazy ?? but I don’t want to call her a liar because she’s always there for me and nothing like my ex mate? I want to keep friends but this isn’t the way lol.

Q: what would you do If your friend was like this ? And how do you stop acting like this .

Reply 1

Surnia

If it's not urgent, just send something and then come off social media and do something more productive.

If you want a back-and-forth, phone your friend or meet up for a normal conversation. You've said she's there for you at other times, but she won't be much longer if you're stalking her Snapchat use.

Reply 2

nonchalant-

Unless you have actual proof of something you're accusing someone of, I suggest you stop with that attitude because it's coming off as pesky needy, and entitled.

If a friend is putting you on the back burner, you bring it up to them that in a mature way.

" friendships are two way way street, i don't think it's fair you only contact me on your terms"...or something ....and you leave it at that. Don't beg.