If you've already raised the issue then there's no need to go over it again, you just tell him that you're unsatisfied with the seriousness with which he has come to treat you in recent weeks and he needs to up his game or what is otherwise a fantastic relationship may turn sour
If a bird came to me with a list she'd be getting laughed at, sorry. Preparation for 'serious talk' is good, so do have examples on hand but
never reel them off just like that or you'll look a mentalist!
The thing is, if he's anything like me he'll sense this, and this feeds his complacency. One should never be afraid to love, and show love, but one should be wary of guys who mistake love for being soft
If it's a major domo then write him out of your plans for that thing and forget about it.
In time, if he wants to be included, he will come round and learn the importance of responding in a timely manner. Again I'm awful myself in this regard, but then I have my excuses (M.E. chief among them). My ex used to resent the fact she could never count on my attendance at owt and would only typically know on the day whether we were 'a go'
That's sweet. I guess something's stirred in him.. just don't labour it or nag; be short and sharp, but not too dour faced or accusatory!Neither of you want a break, they're pretty horrible things when you're close to a partner I imagine, but he needs to understand that if you can't resolve this matter by talking about it like adults then you'll have to have a break during which time he can work out whether he's ready for a serious, respectful relationship with a girl like yourself
Aye, consider a break the nuclear option though. If he's a half decent looking/confident lad there's always the very real possibility he could go get laid during this break, or think **** it, she can love me or leave me (see his attitude
worsen), and then you're into a whole world of ****, even if you do get back together..