Is it normal to be turned off by lots of sex talk?

I think it's quite normal to be turned off by sexual harassment from work colleagues.

I would be creeped out too.

You're not to blame, he is. I would have a quiet word with him.

I thought I should also mention that he's only 18, and a virgin (well, he claims to be). Do you think part of it could be immaturity on his part? As in, he doesn't realise the right way to treat girls properly? Also, I'm 21 so I guess some guys his age might get a bit overexcited over an older women.

"Can we **** please?"
"Send me a pic of your tits"
"You probably have a nice tight pussy"
"I really wanna lick you out"
"You have lovely boobs"
"I want to smash your front and back doors in"

I made friends with a guy from work a few months ago. I think he fancies me, and has said several explicit things to me, in person, by text and online like (paraphrasing as best as I can):

"Can we **** please?"
"Send me a pic of your tits"
"You probably have a nice tight pussy"
"I really wanna lick you out"
"You have lovely boobs"
"I want to smash your front and back doors in"

And lots more. He does also call me beautiful sometimes, but I feel like that's overridden by all the other lewd comments he makes.

I made friends with a guy from work a few months ago. I think he fancies me, and has said several explicit things to me, in person, by text and online like (paraphrasing as best as I can):

"Can we **** please?"
"Send me a pic of your tits"
"You probably have a nice tight pussy"
"I really wanna lick you out"
"You have lovely boobs"
"I want to smash your front and back doors in"

And lots more. He does also call me beautiful sometimes, but I feel like that's overridden by all the other lewd comments he makes.

I liked him as a friend, but I can't fancy him when he keeps speaking to me like that. He's seems way too sex-mad for me, and I worry he doesn't see me as much more than a sex object. It's also overwhelming as he's the first guy to act that way towards me.

I don't need a guy to treat me like that, being all sex mad in order to get me to fancy him; just being a generally friendly and interesting person with plenty of decent conversation will do.

Is this unusual for me to feel like this? Am I possibly at all demisexual, have a low sex drive, or just prefer a personality and romance rather than just sex?

By the way, I'm a virgin as I just haven't found the right guy yet, and this guy certainly won't be it.

This is not exactly nice sexy talk. It is very blunt, and doesn't try to build up your pleasure. There are much nicer ways of going about saying these things.

Find a guy who likes to describe in vivid detail but in a way that also tries to build up your anticipation and make your own imagination go wild thinking about what he will say/do next and you will probably like it a lot more.

Hang on... He is not putting you off because of 'lots of sex talk', he is putting you off because he is an idiot! I wonder why you still speak to him. If a 'friend' said those things to me I would NEVER look at his face again.

There is nothing wrong with you. You don't have to feel like having sex wit every guy you know. It's actually the other way around! What the hell? Maybe I am too old for this...

The way I see it, you feel like having sex when you have feelings for someone who respects you and deserves you... And is not a complete moron!

"Can we **** please?"
"Send me a pic of your tits"
"You probably have a nice tight pussy"
"I really wanna lick you out"
"You have lovely boobs"
"I want to smash your front and back doors in"

I thought I should also mention that he's only 18, and a virgin (well, he claims to be). Do you think part of it could be immaturity on his part? As in, he doesn't realise the right way to treat girls properly? Also, I'm 21 so I guess some guys his age might get a bit overexcited over an older women.