Boyfriend left to go on holiday for 2 weeks last night. Didn't even say bye.

Okay, how long have you been together?

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hardly difficult to not expect be the exact epicentre of everything he does.

Almost a year. I still don't understand why I'm being called clingy. Does everyone else never talk to their partners or something? I had barely talked to him all week and then he was just gone. I don't care if he doesn't contact me much when he's out there, obviously he'll be wanting to relax and not worrying about his phone but surely a quick call last night wouldn't have been too much to ask? I'm not paranoid about him cheating, it's not about that, it's just about his attitude towards me, as if I'm not really important enough to make an effort for.

But holidays are meant to be a break from the stresses of everyday life. It's a time when you don't have to acknowledge annoying bosses, nagging co-workers, bills and responsibilities, gossip merchants, nosy friends, clingy girlfriends and things of that nature. Leave him be.

If he wants to take a break from everything -including you- that's his prerogative.

I would say packing and getting ready can end up taking longer than you think. I mean you already know he's going, you're not seeing him in person....I'll be honest and say I don't quite get the logic of NEEDING him to ring you for two minutes to say "bye bye" when you already know he's going on holiday and I assume you've spoken this week. Personally I'd have just kept it to texts, or if my GF expected it, probably tell her to stick her phone on silent and I'd leave some voicemail while at the airport. I mean I assume he'll be able to send you the odd message about what he's gotten up to on holiday, if not one or two short calls.

That's the point, we have barely spoken all week. We talked for about 10 minutes the other day and since then we've maybe texted 3 or 4 times. He didn't even text me till I messaged him last night. No message saying he was at the airport, nothing. I just worry when it comes to flying and I'd just like to know he was safe that's all.

Alright he could be more courteous I'll give you that, I do text quite a lot. Though your fears are your issue not his, I'm sure he's not worrying about flying and I'm sure he's safe, I would expect a text the day or the day after he arrived though tbf.

Well he would have arrived around midday today, but I'm not sure he even has a phone with him so not sure how he'd contact me anyway. Just gonna have to wait and see.

oh leave him be. He was busy packing and looking forward to his holiday with his family.

And just because you have to message him all the time during your holiday doesnt mean he has to.

I think you'll live

lets be real serious here. It means he doesn't like you that much. If he was madly in love with you he'd probably say good bye. In this case he probably finds it a nuisance to contact you.

I generally don't get a girlfriend just for the sake of it and actually always liked my gfs very much so if it were me I'd atleast let them know before hand I'm probably not calling them for the next 2 weeks cus of no wifi/wanting to save money.

Assuming he hasn't mentioned the holiday and that he's not contacting you previously when he's had plenty of time lol.