What would you do if you messed up your chances with your dream girl?

You're right that I don't know 100% but I'm 99.99999999999999999999999999999999999%
surethatsheisperfectformeandnooneelsewillverCoParetoher

Not really. part of infatuation about someone you were never in contact with is that you cna put them on a pedestal and raise them to unachievable standards. She probably want like that in real life and would be horrified you though so. She will burp and fart like the rest of us.

Either go and get help with your shyness or let it ruin you.

Not really. part of infatuation about someone you were never in contact with is that you cna put them on a pedestal and raise them to unachievable standards. She probably want like that in real life and would be horrified you though so. She will burp and fart like the rest of us.

Either go and get help with your shyness or let it ruin you.

I mean I get she can't be universally perfect but to me she is ideal at least. Like she has some little quirks maybe some people would view them as flaws but to me they just make her even more adorable. And even if she isn't perfect I think she's great and definetly what I would look for in a gf. She has all the qualities I would want in a gf; sweet, kind, friendly, nerdy, intelligent, pretty, hard working, sensible, classy, dresses nice, non promiscuous etc. and even if you say that there are others out there with the same qualities I would still say I want her not anyone else

Carry on moping or go and get help. Choices are simple.

This. It's not that hard to move on from someone you've never spoken to if you let yourself

And you knew 100% sure that you will never meet someone else as special as her and as perfect in your eyes as she is/was. There's literally nothing I wouldn't do to go back in time and correct the mistakes I made but you can't change the past

Carry on moping or go and get help. Choices are simple.

Carry on moping or go and get help. Choices are simple.

I would move onto the next girl.

NEXT!

No such thing as a soulmate etc.


Plenty more dream women out there.

But what would be te point in fixing my shyness now when the damage has already been done

i would realise there is no such thing as a dream girl.

You just have rose coloured glasses on about her because you're too beta/ incel to realise the very strong likelihood that actually she's not special.

Losing somebody you care about is hard, and I know it is tempting to feel like you won't possibly ever feel the same way again. The truth, though, is that you almost certainly will. I look back on my life and survey the landscape; the meandering paths are littered with regrets, many of which I cannot possibly now correct. Loss is a part of life, but ideally it will lead to opportunities for you to have new experiences, meet new people and feel that way again. It will be hard for a while, but you will move on. You must.