Is it unfair to tell your boyfriend you'll break up with him if he goes to Amsterdam?

oh blooming heck thats a bit rough

though out of morbid curiosity do you have any pics of the higher spectrum girls.

I'm just trying to work out if he's being a cow or not.

Basically, he wants to go to Amsterdam with his guy mates, get stoned and stay in the red light district.

I am not comfortable with this at all, so I have offered the ultimatum of if he goes, that's it. Am I being unreasonable.

If so, why?

Wanna know what you can get with your hard earned dough aye?






To be honest these girls sleep with upto 30 people a day. I bet there is more traction on Chris Hoy's bike tyres.

Yep as i said curiosity, when i worked within sexual health i saw all manner of sex workers from £10 a go heroin addict street walkers right up to the £1000 a night escorts and some of the women would make your eyes pop out.

Those women are attractice though.

I hate it when people say this. Its insincere, flippant and borderline naive. People are allowed to have shaky moments of trust in their relationship you know. Just because someone has doubts about something doesnt mean they should walk out of the relationship.

And anyway, I wouldnt be happy with my boyfriend staying in the red light district of Amsterdam with his group of mates either. Recipe for disaster.
Although I wouldnt give him an ultimatum.

I'm just trying to work out if he's being a cow or not.

Basically, he wants to go to Amsterdam with his guy mates, get stoned and stay in the red light district.

I am not comfortable with this at all, so I have offered the ultimatum of if he goes, that's it. Am I being unreasonable.

If so, why?

Someone's i-n-s-e-c-u-r-e, but look at it this way, I'm going to leap to the OP's defence here, what if he sleeps with hookers and brings STDs back and gives them to HER?

If you don't trust him, why are you in a relationship?

Simple question really...

Hookers in Amsterdam don't have STD's/ sleep with you without condoms. In Holland the RLD is part of a trade union and everything, they are all registered, it would be considered as wrong, and allow you to file a complaint

They also go through screening every few weeks, it's part of the contract.

I'm just trying to work out if he's being a cow or not.

Basically, he wants to go to Amsterdam with his guy mates, get stoned and stay in the red light district.

I am not comfortable with this at all, so I have offered the ultimatum of if he goes, that's it. Am I being unreasonable.

If so, why?

I know this is old but this is for everyone Your being harshI am going to Amsterdam with my boyfriend now I'm lucky because my boyfriend is decent and would never pay for sex. However no I don't think your being unreasonable because although there is trust there putting temptation is such a worry. I trust my Boyf but I would hate him to go to Amsterdam with his mates drinking and stuff and this is why although he is a decent guy he is still a maleThe science of males is they all like to be alpha male and everyone knows that there boyfriend watches porn and if a gorgeous girl was offering sex at the cheap prices they do and there drunk and when a guy gets drunk and high they usually want sex and there not thinking strate it is the nature of every male. Yes my boyfriend is decent but the temptations there and anything could happen ad the type of person I am I see it as cheating and why would you let your boyfriend cheat the whole point of being in a relatipnship is to be loyal to eachother and be togetherIt's a bit strong saying youll break up with him but if I was in your position I wouldn't feel comfortable but talk to him and explain the situation in reverse when I do that to my boyfriend it works