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Reply 20
What people do in their private time is no business of yours.
Original post by misspotential
and why does everying to do with religion have to involve some arguing?
its actually getting tiring. it was just a suggestion jheeze.


Wasn't really arguing, I was just giving an opinion? My point was religion isnt the answer to everything. Converting to Islam seems like a bit of a radical solution to her problem.
Reply 22
Original post by tehFrance
By any chance are you very sexually inexperienced? because this does sound like something one that has not or does not have very much sexual pleasure would say.

As for anything you can do to stop it, nothing can be done. If someone finds you attractive and gets turned on by you, it is likely they will masturbate over you :smile:


Yeah, I'm a virgin, as you have probably already guessed... But I don't think it's due to sexual experience, it just makes me feel really vulnerable - like I could be talking to someone innocently whilst they're thinking of me doing things to them...

But you say just if they find you attractive? So maybe just people that you are hooking up with, not like friends or acquaintances? Thank-you :smile:
Reply 23
Original post by scotttb
So you also don't like the idea of women "pleasuring themselves to your image?"


I don't like the idea of anyone pleasuring themselves to my image lol!
Original post by Anonymous
like I could be talking to someone innocently whilst they're thinking of me doing things to them...


To be honest, I think you just give them the benefit of the doubt. I agree the idea is pretty creepy but I would just say dont think about it :smile:
Reply 25
Original post by Clone93
Sorry, it's going to happen, you should make your peace with it now. Also all your single, straight male friends want to sleep with you and your friendships will surely fail, but that's all for a different thread. The point is, guys are going to pleasure themselves with your image, sometimes using a female "friends" facebook pics is even better than porn as there's a level of believeability to it. I know I'll never bang Sasha Grey, but I could bang the girl next door.


Do you use proper friends or just acquaintances, girls you don't know that well?
Reply 26
Original post by redferry
I'm sorry but I think considering not having male friends is just ridiculous.
Guys above about 16/17 aren't going to be doing this sort of thing, and with the access to internet porn it is unlikely they will anyway unless they are a creep - ie someone you wouldn't want to be friends with anyway, and the minority of guys.
Teenage boys can be a bit gross like that, but I think you are giving less credit to guys than they deserve. Unless you are ridiculously hot they aren't going to bashing one out imagining you. Especially when they can just go on free porn...


Erm yes they do.
I'm pretty sure the chances of your male friends pleasuring themselves whilst thinking of you is relatively slim, it shouldn't worry you. When they ****, the first thing they look at is porn, not your image online or even a fantasy inside their heads- just porn videos.
Reply 28
Original post by PoGo HoPz
Me too. I can't bear the thought of girls masturbating over pics of me. I'm way too good looking for that. If they want to sex me so badly, then they should do it in person. :rolleyes:


I never said that - I don't know why people have assumed this means that I think I'm God's gift to man - obviously I'm not! If anything, I feel a bit insecure and vulnerable about it all.
Lol, what makes you think anyone wants to masturbate at the sight of you anyway?

Unless you know someone has been jacking off thinking about you and told you, this is a ridiculous thing to be worrying about. I mean seriously how do people like you get the courage to go outside? :rolleyes:
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Original post by Anonymous
Yeah, I'm a virgin, as you have probably already guessed... But I don't think it's due to sexual experience, it just makes me feel really vulnerable - like I could be talking to someone innocently whilst they're thinking of me doing things to them...

But you say just if they find you attractive? So maybe just people that you are hooking up with, not like friends or acquaintances? Thank-you :smile:

Yes, I feel once you get into the game (everything masturbation and sex), you won't find it that weird and disturbing however until then you will have to try and keep it out of your mind like everyone else :smile:

Well I don't masturbate over my friends as frankly I can't, I hate to admit it but masturbation is not for me and I would rather have sex than be alone masturbating to porn or a friend. Most people will masturbate to people they find attractive regardless of whether they know them well or not.
Reply 31
You really sound like you shouldn't be using social networking if you're worried like this.
Reply 32
Original post by Anonymous
Would you mind a guy pleasuring himself over your images?

Just putting it another way :smile:


My gay housemate has given me a blow by blow account of exactly what he's imagined doing to me, and indeed a couple of my other housemates, this was a very sociable fantasy, whilst having a tug. I really couldn't care less what gets him off whilst he's beating away, I know he's not going to actually try and do anything in real life!

They're called fantasies for a reason, because people wouldn't dream of, or even want to, act them out in real life.
Reply 33
Original post by alexh42
Erm yes they do.


Erm no they don't. Not once you get a bit older. Most of my friends are male and believe me they are more than happy to talk openly about their masturbation habits.
Reply 34
Original post by Anonymous
Do you use proper friends or just acquaintances, girls you don't know that well?


Seriously don't listen to these guys, they talk crap and can't accept platonic male-female relationships because they could never hold one because of their immaturity and/or the way they view women. I'm a 22 year old with loads of close male friends, we discuss stuff like this all the time and have done since the age of 16 and honestly, most guys are better than that.
I'm not saying no-one will ever do it, but it really isn't as commonplace as these guys would have you think, and certainly not worth worrying about.
Reply 35
Original post by Anonymous
Do you use proper friends or just acquaintances, girls you don't know that well?


Well, guys and girls can't be friends, but ignoring that for a second, both really, depends on whether I can imagine it so I would need a bit of background information.
Reply 36
Original post by redferry
Seriously don't listen to these guys, they talk crap and can't accept platonic male-female relationships because they could never hold one because of their immaturity and/or the way they view women. I'm a 22 year old with loads of close male friends, we discuss stuff like this all the time and have done since the age of 16 and honestly, most guys are better than that.
I'm not saying no-one will ever do it, but it really isn't as commonplace as these guys would have you think, and certainly not worth worrying about.


Thank-you :smile:
Original post by redferry
Seriously don't listen to these guys, they talk crap and can't accept platonic male-female relationships because they could never hold one because of their immaturity and/or the way they view women. I'm a 22 year old with loads of close male friends, we discuss stuff like this all the time and have done since the age of 16 and honestly, most guys are better than that.
I'm not saying no-one will ever do it, but it really isn't as commonplace as these guys would have you think, and certainly not worth worrying about.


Lol not that I'm totally disagreeing with you, but they're hardly going to tell you "yeah I jacked off thinking about you last night", are they?
Original post by SoNottingH
I don't know - whilst the thought of it is a little icky, it's also kind of a little flattering, isn't it?
That's what I thought, surely it should be taken more as a compliment than creepy or whatever. If someone fantasises over you they basically find you attractive & doesn't mean they just think of you as a sex object, it's not exactly a crime either.
Reply 39
Original post by 3 Phase Duck
Lol not that I'm totally disagreeing with you, but they're hardly going to tell you "yeah I jacked one off to you last night", now are they?


Yes...
In fact I have been told before by one of them (when we were younger) that he had a **** thinking about me and then felt sick afterwards because it was 'basically, no offense but...' like masturbating over a man 'not that you look like a man or anything!'. The thing about having a large group of guy mates is also they enjoy grassing each other up when they mention things like this to each other as well. Nothing remains secret for long!
You underestimate my friends and the openness of out relationship.

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