Doing sexual stuff on the first date and now feeling bad about it..

Ok so i'd been texting this guy for a while, it's been a mix of getting to know each other and a bit of sexting too Recently we met up for the first time, we went for a walk in the woods and it was all nice and lovely, then we went back to my car and when we started kissing, i noticed he had a hard on and before i knew it, i'd pulled his jeans down and was giving him a blowjob. Now normally i'm usually very composed and in control but it all just got away from me that day.

He still says he likes me but i feel like he wouldn't want to commit to a girl who does stuff like that on a date and i don't know how to go back to being classy and 'relationship material' after being such a slut! But I really like this guy and i just got carried away

Just explain you got carried away and try not to do it again. And really if he was happy to except a blow job off you and then puts you in the category of "not relationship material" then is he really as nice as you think? Being a slut works 2 ways he didn't have to accept the blow job.

Why feel bad? You did what you wanted.

yeah i know i did what i wanted at the time but i can't help but think it might have cost me what i want in the long run

Just explain you got carried away and try not to do it again. And really if he was happy to except a blow job off you and then puts you in the category of "not relationship material" then is he really as nice as you think? Being a slut works 2 ways he didn't have to accept the blow job.

I wouldn't worry about it. you had been getting to know each other for a while etc and you obviously had feelings for each sexually, it's not like you randomly met someone that night and did it, without even knowing their name. As above poster said I seriously doubt he minds hahaaa. maybe text him and say you don't usually do that kinda thing straight off and that, if you're worried. I'm sure he'd understand! Just don't make it am expectation.


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I have the most awkward boner right now..

Yeah i don't think any guy would reject a blowjob anyway tbh but i just hope he doesn't expect it to be a regular occurence on dates cos i'd usually only do all that in a relationship.

I already text him saying i'm usually not like that and that i just got carried away and he said that obviously i turned him on and he liked that i relieved him. Maybe i'm just freaking out over nothing

Yeah i don't think any guy would reject a blowjob anyway tbh but i just hope he doesn't expect it to be a regular occurence on dates cos i'd usually only do all that in a relationship.

I already text him saying i'm usually not like that and that i just got carried away and he said that obviously i turned him on and he liked that i relieved him. Maybe i'm just freaking out over nothing