How do I start talking to this girl again?
So, here's the story, I started talking to this girl a while back. We talked for around two weeks solid but then I started a full time job and she started back at uni and things faded because of how busy we suddenly were.
It's been about a month and I still have a crush on her so I'm really hoping to get talking to her again and, hopefully, if she's not as busy, ask her out but I'm not sure how to go about it?
I feel really awkward about just messaging her out of the blue after a month, especially since we weren't actually speaking to each other for that long, because I think she might find it a bit strange? Is there a way I could go about making it less weird? Or am I just over thinking it and it wouldn't be weird at all?
It's been about a month and I still have a crush on her so I'm really hoping to get talking to her again and, hopefully, if she's not as busy, ask her out but I'm not sure how to go about it?
I feel really awkward about just messaging her out of the blue after a month, especially since we weren't actually speaking to each other for that long, because I think she might find it a bit strange? Is there a way I could go about making it less weird? Or am I just over thinking it and it wouldn't be weird at all?
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You could accidentally on purpose call her......blame the lighting 
Cheers for your comments guys! I think I'm just overly nervous.
Started chatting to her over facebook, I don't have her number anymore due to a new phone, but the conversation was short and sweet and she'd stopped replying before I had the chance to ask, blew it!
Original post by Anonymous
Started chatting to her over facebook, I don't have her number anymore due to a new phone, but the conversation was short and sweet and she'd stopped replying before I had the chance to ask, blew it!
did she say bye, gotta go, or did she just start ignoring you?
Original post by cole-slaw
did she say bye, gotta go, or did she just start ignoring you?
Just read the message and didn't reply. Thinking it's a "not interested" sign because of how short the conversation was.
Original post by Anonymous
Just read the message and didn't reply. Thinking it's a "not interested" sign because of how short the conversation was.
That would be the vibe I would get. Maybe try another girl? Who's next on the list?
Original post by cole-slaw
That would be the vibe I would get. Maybe try another girl? Who's next on the list?
No one next on the list! Proper slow burner when It comes to being interested in people.
Original post by Just Another Girly
You could accidentally on purpose call her......blame the lighting
Blame OBAMA care, after all it does suck
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Original post by Anonymous
No one next on the list! Proper slow burner when It comes to being interested in people.
Well that's fair enough, but just because there is no-one you particularly want a relationship with, that doesn't mean it wouldn't still be good for you to still go on dates/smash some fitties.
you never know, quite often if you nail a dirty girl a few times you find you quite like her and want to make things exclusive.
better and healthier than sitting around moping about some girl that isn't interested!
Original post by Anonymous
No one next on the list! Proper slow burner when It comes to being interested in people.
AY boss, you wanna join the eyetalian mahfeeya bwoss? We got cookies
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So, here's the story, I started talking to this girl a while back. We talked for around two weeks solid but then I started a full time job and she started back at uni and things faded because of how busy we suddenly were.
It's been about a month and I still have a crush on her so I'm really hoping to get talking to her again and, hopefully, if she's not as busy, ask her out but I'm not sure how to go about it?
I feel really awkward about just messaging her out of the blue after a month, especially since we weren't actually speaking to each other for that long, because I think she might find it a bit strange? Is there a way I could go about making it less weird? Or am I just over thinking it and it wouldn't be weird at all?
It's been about a month and I still have a crush on her so I'm really hoping to get talking to her again and, hopefully, if she's not as busy, ask her out but I'm not sure how to go about it?
I feel really awkward about just messaging her out of the blue after a month, especially since we weren't actually speaking to each other for that long, because I think she might find it a bit strange? Is there a way I could go about making it less weird? Or am I just over thinking it and it wouldn't be weird at all?
She will probably think it's a pleasant surprise. There's nothing to worry about darling.
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I'm just kidding, I signed up for healthcare.gov before March the 5th so I got at Obama care.
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I'm just kidding, I signed up for healthcare.gov before March the 5th so I got at Obama care.
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Just flex the surfer dude abs and it's all cool
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