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Should girls play hard to get in a new relationship?

I'm talking very early days, around the 4th or 5th date mark - is it a good idea to hold a little bit back and not show too much interest?

I'm dating this guy and I find he shows more interest when I 'lean back' a little and don't flirt with him and take a little while to reply to his texts etc. When I flirt with him, tell him he looks good etc he gets a little bit cocky and big headed about it and doesn't seem to think he has to make an effort with me as much.

Just wondering what other guys are like in this situation.

Reply 1

Reue

Only kids play games in relationships.

Reply 2

username47781

Agreed, a little chase is fun but at the same time playing games like pretending to show no interest can come back to bite you and the other person losing complete interest in you.