Dating and sex

If you and your date find each other attractive, would you consider having sex with them before going on your first date together? It would remove sexual tension and most of the lies just to get under someone's pants. The result would be a more comfortable and honest date.

Reply 1

phunky_fresh

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Original post by Sponge_

If you and your date find each other attractive, would you consider having sex with them before going on your first date together? It would remove sexual tension and most of the lies just to get under someone's pants. The result would be a more comfortable and honest date.

Lol no. Why not build the sexual attention by going on several dates? Who knows, the sex might be worth the wait.

Reply 2

Sponge_

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Original post by phunky_fresh

Lol no. Why not build the sexual attention by going on several dates? Who knows, the sex might be worth the wait.

Read my OP again.
I also think you might be a virgin.

Reply 3

Zargabaath

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Original post by Sponge_

If you and your date find each other attractive, would you consider having sex with them before going on your first date together? It would remove sexual tension and most of the lies just to get under someone's pants. The result would be a more comfortable and honest date.

Sure, I'm not really interested in a long term relationship so this would just be a short-cut to the fun bit

Reply 4

Rakas21

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Original post by Sponge_

If you and your date find each other attractive, would you consider having sex with them before going on your first date together? It would remove sexual tension and most of the lies just to get under someone's pants. The result would be a more comfortable and honest date.

I'm a man... need i say more.

Reply 5

soanonymous

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Original post by Sponge_

If you and your date find each other attractive, would you consider having sex with them before going on your first date together? It would remove sexual tension and most of the lies just to get under someone's pants. The result would be a more comfortable and honest date.

Yeah I would, it's always good to get that out of the way. Sex isn't a big deal unless you're a 16year old and want it to be oh so special with candles and music and ****. Honestly, doing the whole 'date' thing after you've had sex is so much more real and relaxed.

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Maradiah

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Original post by Sponge_

If you and your date find each other attractive, would you consider having sex with them before going on your first date together? It would remove sexual tension and most of the lies just to get under someone's pants. The result would be a more comfortable and honest date.

But that's the point of endorsing her by wining and dining her, it's the reward of having intercourse at the end.

Otherwise it just makes having a date mundane, considering you cut the best part out. :bored:

Reply 7

Sponge_

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Original post by Maradiah

But that's the point of endorsing her by wining and dining her, is the reward of having intercourse at the end.

Otherwise it just makes having a date mundane, considering you cut the best part out. :bored:

The point of the date is to get to know each other, and if things go well, there's a good relationship ahead of you both as a 'reward'.
If the reward you're after is sex, then you're more likely to lie, in which case chances of a good relationship start to fall. If you want sex, go find casual sex partners.