if a guy asks to go out for a drink do they just want sex

if a guy asks to go out for a drink do they just want sex? Cause at 21 seems to be rare for someone to want more from me in my experience

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

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As both uni second years*

Reply 2

Surnia

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You'll get arrested for having sex in the middle of a pub!

Sometimes a drink is just a drink...

Reply 3

londonmyst

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Going out to a bar or restaurant usually rules out sex within the venue premises. :biggrin:

Unlike having a drink in their hotel room or their student accomodation.

Reply 4

Dunnig Kruger

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Original post by londonmyst

Going out to a bar or restaurant usually rules out sex within the venue premises. :biggrin:

Unlike having a drink in their hotel room or their student accomodation.

Toilets rule that option in. Although it's not going to be the longest lasting or most comfortable sex ever.

Reply 5

Sorcerer's Storm

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Original post by Dunnig Kruger

Toilets rule that option in. Although it's not going to be the longest lasting or most comfortable sex ever.

Having sex in public toilets must be one of the most disgusting experiences.

Reply 6

Dunnig Kruger

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Original post by Sorcerer of Old

Having sex in public toilets must be one of the most disgusting experiences.

I wouldn't know. :biggrin:

Reply 7

Sorcerer's Storm

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Original post by Dunnig Kruger

I wouldn't know. :biggrin:

Public toilets are notorious for stinking to high heaven, being unhygienic as hell and usually having píss and crap everywhere. Horrid, horrid place to have sex.

Reply 8

londonmyst

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Original post by Dunnig Kruger

Toilets rule that option in. Although it's not going to be the longest lasting or most comfortable sex ever.

That's assuming the venue's toilets are kept unlocked and accessible to anyone who is not pest control or the pests being hunted. :tongue:

Nope. It can just as easily mean, "I'd like to get to know you and see if there is potential for a relationship here."

I asked out my now-girlfriend by inviting her out for a drink. Didn't sleep together until 1-2 months in. Moved in together around the 9 month mark. Bought a house together on our first anniversary. A drink invitation doesn't always mean just sex!

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

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Original post by 1582

Nope. It can just as easily mean, "I'd like to get to know you and see if there is potential for a relationship here."

I asked out my now-girlfriend by inviting her out for a drink. Didn't sleep together until 1-2 months in. Moved in together around the 9 month mark. Bought a house together on our first anniversary. A drink invitation doesn't always mean just sex!