Hey, I’m Scarlet, I’ve been at university for three years now and I have remained in a long-distance relationship for the three years. Long distance relationships can be very difficult, and there will be times when you feel sad and lonely, but this is normal, if you both want to make it work then it is definitely possible.
I know it’s easier said than done but try not to worry about it yet, just see how it goes and making time for each other is the most important thing. Me and my partner try and see each other at least every 6-8 weeks, but I know this may not always possible due to practicality and finances. I recommend using the MegaBus as I have found this to be the cheapest way to travel by bus, and I also use ticket splitter for cheaper train routes. Of course using a rail card as well makes the train tickets considerably cheaper. This way you may be able to afford to see each other more often, if you're saving money on travel.
Also try and make use of facetiming and messaging often to keep each other up to date with your lives. I really do think that’s the most important thing when trying to make your relationship work with the distance, as you want to still feel present in each other’s lives.
I was super worried about how much I would miss my partner but to be honest, while I’m at university I find it quite nice, as I get to spend a lot of time in my own company (which I never done before) and I find myself with friends and housemates a lot of the time so it isn’t as lonely as I thought it was going to be initially.
Also, the three years at university has flown by for me, and it really hasn't been as hard to maintain my relationship as I anticipated, providing you are both happy and you both want to make it work.
If it doesn’t work out for you both then being at university is a great time to find yourself and meet other people, so try not to worry until you’re there, and even then, it isn’t the be all and end all! Its good you’re making the step of moving away, for yourself!
Good luck, I hope it works out for you both.
Scarlet - Sheffield Hallam Student Ambassedor