am i just sad?
I realise that i am always imagining romantic scenarios in my head as i have never been in a relationship before and i think i am low key desperate for romantic attention at this point, yet i am not emotional and know i wouldn't let anybody close to me so easy.
am i setting unrealistic standards? yes i want a relationship, but i want to know the person as a friend first, and that doesn't seem like its happening. I am a shy and introverted person and think i have a fear of intimacy, so all in all i don't seem to be doing myself any favours :/
it is lame to be imagining scenarios all the time? i am trying to stop as i think i am making myself feel even more lonely tbh and making unrealistic scenarios that probably wont reflect reality oop.
am i setting unrealistic standards? yes i want a relationship, but i want to know the person as a friend first, and that doesn't seem like its happening. I am a shy and introverted person and think i have a fear of intimacy, so all in all i don't seem to be doing myself any favours :/
it is lame to be imagining scenarios all the time? i am trying to stop as i think i am making myself feel even more lonely tbh and making unrealistic scenarios that probably wont reflect reality oop.
Original post by Anonymous #1
I realise that i am always imagining romantic scenarios in my head as i have never been in a relationship before and i think i am low key desperate for romantic attention at this point, yet i am not emotional and know i wouldn't let anybody close to me so easy.
am i setting unrealistic standards? yes i want a relationship, but i want to know the person as a friend first, and that doesn't seem like its happening. I am a shy and introverted person and think i have a fear of intimacy, so all in all i don't seem to be doing myself any favours :/
it is lame to be imagining scenarios all the time? i am trying to stop as i think i am making myself feel even more lonely tbh and making unrealistic scenarios that probably wont reflect reality oop.
am i setting unrealistic standards? yes i want a relationship, but i want to know the person as a friend first, and that doesn't seem like its happening. I am a shy and introverted person and think i have a fear of intimacy, so all in all i don't seem to be doing myself any favours :/
it is lame to be imagining scenarios all the time? i am trying to stop as i think i am making myself feel even more lonely tbh and making unrealistic scenarios that probably wont reflect reality oop.
I get the same thing. I really want a relationship but I don't know if it is the right time to start?
Original post by Anonymous #2
I get the same thing. I really want a relationship but I don't know if it is the right time to start?
yea i feel like i am not confident or self-accepting enough to get into it, even though i want it. I think i'm scared of someone liking me tbh. I have met someone recently whom i think is kinda cute, yet i know i will never act on it or try to talk to him because im afraid, and also bad at socialising haha
Original post by Anonymous #2
I get the same thing. I really want a relationship but I don't know if it is the right time to start?
same
Original post by Anonymous #1
I realise that i am always imagining romantic scenarios in my head as i have never been in a relationship before and i think i am low key desperate for romantic attention at this point, yet i am not emotional and know i wouldn't let anybody close to me so easy.
am i setting unrealistic standards? yes i want a relationship, but i want to know the person as a friend first, and that doesn't seem like its happening. I am a shy and introverted person and think i have a fear of intimacy, so all in all i don't seem to be doing myself any favours :/
it is lame to be imagining scenarios all the time? i am trying to stop as i think i am making myself feel even more lonely tbh and making unrealistic scenarios that probably wont reflect reality oop.
am i setting unrealistic standards? yes i want a relationship, but i want to know the person as a friend first, and that doesn't seem like its happening. I am a shy and introverted person and think i have a fear of intimacy, so all in all i don't seem to be doing myself any favours :/
it is lame to be imagining scenarios all the time? i am trying to stop as i think i am making myself feel even more lonely tbh and making unrealistic scenarios that probably wont reflect reality oop.
im the same way. i really want a relationship
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