Do NOT get in a relationship

Yes at midnite I am here. And why? Because this is what happens when you invite someone in your life. They take over or try to and either way it sucks. When I was single which was until just this weekend ok I could go anywhere on my own, whenever, with whmever, however long as I want. And not worry someone will prevent me beforehand or disapprove after or nag meantime. I was a free bird. Now it's only been like 4 ****ing days and like we have not had any time apart. She finds it romantic and I find it suffocating lmao. I have to tell her when I wanna fart, leave, make mac and cheese, all of that. She's not even abusive or demanding and yet it still feels that way. I just need to vent like my mates are happy I'm "settling down" and I dont really bother my family about these issues. Eugh I am honesly considering dumping her for the sole reason that I cant even take a **** without having to tell her or she freaks out I am ignoring her or something. If its not all day on the fone (I mean all day) then its all day at hers. As you can tell I never tried the committed relationship thing, I've only dated and this one is a bit over my head someone help me!

Do you think she's clingy?

Relationship? What Pokemon is that?

Tell her you need some room. Speak your mind otherwise what's the point of being in a relationship.

It's not really her fault, some people show affection in different ways. I'm sure she doesn't mean to suffocate you, but at the same time she doesn't realise that it's actually causing harm because you're starting to get annoyed at it now. Use should both sit down and you should tell her to back off a little bit, but also reassure her that use aren't breaking up it's just that you want a little space and time for yourself just to do things by yourself. Please don't hurt her though or put it in a rude way. People have different ways of showing affection to someone, and that's her way of doing it. I hope this helps☺️


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Just grow a pair and tell her to stop it. It's that simple.

This isnt an advice thread...I just dont like committed relationships.

Why be in one if you don't like them? I mean, other guys/ girls do, but not everyone has to be the same, and she can't really help how she is either

bruh relationships are a clear no go

You probably just need to tell her straight. I've been in a relationship like that before where it was so clingy, it does no one any favours, we constantly argued and it wasn't good for either of us, I just got constantly stressed and it affected my educational work. I'm now in a much better relationship where we aren't clingy and it's the best thing you could do as you feel like you can do your own thing too. Maybe she has had a relationship in the past where being clingy was the only thing she knew and that's what she is used too. Either way it won't do either of you any good in the long run, to be brutally honest it will more than likely end sour. Just sit and talk to her and tell her you do need time apart for it to be healthy and that the trust should be good enough so that you don't have to spend 24/7 talking/together.

I don't think the problem is you being in a relationship, the problem is that she sounds clingy and needy to know where you always are