Circumcision

So last night was going to be the first time me and my girlfriend had "shacked up" :wink:

(mods, this isnt going dodgy I promise). And leading up to the deed, she freaked out. Im circumcised see, and I hadnt really been able to drop it into conversation. Upon noticing it, well her reaction wasnt particularly favourable.

Is it really so bad to be circumcised? (In case you wonder, i had it done for medical reasons, not religeous) Girls, if you found that you guy was, would it be a big deal, guys, Am I the only one?

And should it be something to make explicit to a girlfriend before we do...it?

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Reply 1

TOD100

Woah I'm relieved. I thought it was the other way round (after watching too much Sex and the city :rolleyes:

)

Does it really matter if condoms are used?

Motherless Child

Reply 2

username23872

Lol, i think it was ur girlfriend's first time and she doesnt have enough experience.. Circumcision is really healty, clean and cool..

Reply 3

TOD100

Hold on - can someone please big up the 'shrink wrapped' look?

Motherless Child

Reply 4

xXMessedUpXx

i agree....i prefer circumcised guys, it looks less freaky (yes i know its natural yadda yadda..) and it's cleaner etc.

tho to be fair the first time i saw an uncircumcised penis..i freaked out slighty.

don't let it worry you

Reply 5

username21537

Hameedtarin

Lol, i think it was ur girlfriend's first time and she doesnt have enough experience.. Circumcision is really healty, clean and cool..

Weve had sexual parners before. She would have been my second, i was able to let the first one know

Reply 6

Cirsium

To be honest I've never been with a guy who was circumsized... but bearing in mind it's far more hygeinic i'm all for it!!

Reply 7

TOD100

It's no more hygeinic than a bloke who washes it daily, like all men should anyway....

Motherless Child

Reply 8

username23872

well true, but its more hygenic than an uncircumcised penis..

Reply 9

TOD100

Hameedtarin

well true, but its more hygenic than an uncircumcised penis..

Contradiction

Motherless Child

Reply 10

Né Stig

I'm personally not circumcised, but it's supposed to be cleaner (although I really don't understand how) and every one of my mates I know is and every girl they meet never has a problem. Probably just an experience thing. She'll get used to it and start loving it! :biggrin:

Reply 11

Helenia

Can't say it bothers me - after all it's not like you would've had much say in the matter most likely, so it can't be your fault.

Reply 12

xXMessedUpXx

walshie

I'm personally not circumcised, but it's supposed to be cleaner (although I really don't understand how)

If you have no foreskin you don't get the crap that collects beneath it if not cleaned :wink:

Reply 13

SammyD

I prefer circumcised, I'm not really sure what there is to freak out over though.

Reply 14

xXMessedUpXx

SammyD

I prefer circumcised, I'm not really sure what there is to freak out over though.

Ditto all 3 boyfs have been...which is either lucky or its more common than we think.

the other two guys weren't tho...one of which it was well..scary :eek:

Reply 15

Brown Eyed Girl

never been with someone who was.. i cant see a reason to freak tho... its not like your gonna spend alot of time looking at it.....

Reply 16

Hana_87

Im not sure i have seen an UN circumsized one so i don't know.

But if i did i wouldn't be as rude as to freak out over it..

It would be their favourite posession and would be like them freaking out over my hair or something!

Reply 17

kate86

I "encountered" (!) my first circumcised one with my new boyfriend a few weeks back. And I gotta admit at first I was abit weird about it, just because it wasnt what I was used to. Because of that I was at first a lil reluctant to do anything with him purely because I didnt know if there was a different way i should be doing it now! So maybe that just scared her abit, they are quite different!

But now I got to say I am now converted and much prefer men circumcised!

Reply 18

RetiredAccount89

Circumcision is a little bit cleaner, and a little bit less likely to transmit STDs. But push comes to shove they don't look that different when erect really do they, and all nobs have an air of sillyness when flaccid.
Hence i can't see how anyone could be 'freaked out' by one.
As for cleanliness, well if you like a guy because of has a ough around the edges look, unshaven, bit grubby...expect the grubbyness all over ya?